Episode Summary:

In this heartfelt episode of Life Beyond the Bible, Rev. Pat opens up about the often unspoken challenges that arise in marriage when one partner has finally healed from past trauma, only to discover that intimacy with their spouse feels distant. She shares her journey of overcoming the lingering pain of sexual abuse and how it changed her experience of intimacy.

This conversation isn’t about blame—it’s about grace, growth, and understanding the seasons of marriage with honesty and love. Whether you're single, newly married, or decades in, this episode offers insight and comfort for any woman navigating change in her relationship.

In this episode, we talk about:

The emotional shift after healing from trauma

How intimacy evolves in long-term relationships

What to do when your desire for closeness isn't matched.

Why communication, grace, and self-awareness are critical.

Encouragement for the woman feeling unseen or emotionally disconnected.

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Podcast: Life Beyond the Bible

Host: Rev. Pat

Duration: 30–45 minutes

🌟 Episode Summary:

In this soul-nourishing episode, Rev. Pat invites you to step beyond your assigned roles—mother, wife, leader, caregiver—and reclaim your God-given identity. Through powerful scriptures and relatable reflections, we explore what it means to be fully known and formed by God long before the world gave us titles.

You were not created to function, you were created for relationship, intimacy, and divine purpose. This conversation will encourage you to grieve the lost parts of yourself, rediscover your joy, and remember who you are in Christ.

📖 Key Scriptures:

Jeremiah 1:5 – “Before I formed you in the womb I knew you…”

Psalm 139:13–16 – “You are fearfully and wonderfully made…”

Luke 10:38–42 Mary of Bethany chose presence over pressure.

🔑 What You’ll Learn:

How roles are temporary, but identity in Christ is eternal

What happens when life shifts and roles change

How biblical women like Deborah, Lydia, and Mary of Bethany lived beyond societal expectations.

How to rediscover joy and return to the version of yourself that feels whole.

A powerful declaration to speak over your life

Declaration:

“I am not just what I do. I am who God formed me to be—on purpose and with purpose.”

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Episode Summary:

In this deeply personal and honest episode, Rev. Pat explores the powerful tension many women carry: showing up for their public callings while navigating private battles. Ministry leaders, mothers, and purpose-driven women often carry silent grief, trauma, and emotional exhaustion—yet still lead, love, and pour.

This episode is your reminder that you are still called, even when no one sees the weight you carry. You don’t have to pretend to be strong for God to use you. He works through your weakness, not around it.

You’ll hear:

• What it means to lead while limping

• How to reframe guilt and pressure as a woman in leadership

• Why your brokenness may be the very reason you’re called

• Reflection questions and a prayer to release shame and embrace your true assignment

Scriptures Referenced:

2 Corinthians 12:9

Isaiah 61:3

Psalm 34:18

Romans 8:28

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And don’t forget — you are Confidently Called.

In this uplifting conversation, Rev. Pat emphasizes the importance of embracing one's unique identity and the dangers of comparison. She shares personal anecdotes and biblical insights to encourage listeners to find their authentic voice, overcome insecurities, and celebrate individuality. The discussion highlights the power of affirmation and the necessity of taking bold steps towards living authentically. Rev. Pat calls on women to empower each other and to shine their light without fear of judgment.

Takeaways:

You were never meant to be anyone else.

Comparison is a trap set by the enemy.

You are fearfully and wonderfully made.

Your voice is needed.

You do not have to blend in.

Celebrate sisters, you are not going to cancel your calling.

Let your light shine and don't apologize.

You are perfect for the assignment on your life.

You are good enough.

Be who you are, unapologetically.

Sound Bites:

"You are good enough."

"Your voice is needed."

"You do not have to blend in."

Chapters:

00:00 Embracing Your Unique Journey

02:25 The Dangers of Comparison

05:07 Finding Your Authentic Self

07:35 Overcoming Self-Doubt

10:12 The Power of Affirmation

12:33 Celebrating Individuality

15:06 Taking Bold Steps

17:17 Shining Unapologetically

24:29 Opening Prayer and Encouragement

26:10 Empowerment and Community Building

Episode Summary:

In this special Mother’s Day message, I share a heartfelt tribute to two women who shaped my life—my mother, Lois Ann Reed, and my ministry sister, Rev. Sonja Ann Amacker. Their legacy lives on through every woman I mentor, encourage, and love on.

This episode is for every nurturer—whether you’re a mom, mentor, sister, auntie, or friend. You matter. Your love matters. Your calling is real.

For those grieving this Mother’s Day, I offer a word just for you. If you're facing loss, infertility, a strained relationship, or simply missing someone you love, you're not alone. God sees you.

With scripture, raw truth, and Spirit-led encouragement, this episode reminds you: You are seen. You are chosen. You are confidently called.

Key Scriptures:

Proverbs 31:25 · Isaiah 66:13 · Psalm 139:14 · Romans 12:10

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Sis, let’s talk about it:

You know you’re called... but something inside keeps whispering, "You’re not doing it like her."

Whether you’ve been scrolling social media, watching someone else’s ministry grow, or doubting your gift, this episode is for you.

In the first episode of our May series, "Confidently Called," we’re breaking down how comparison creeps in, why it’s killing your confidence, and how to silence the lies so you can walk fully in your lane.

Rev. Pat shares personal testimony, biblical wisdom, and straight-up real talk about what it means to be called, even when your journey doesn’t look like anyone else’s.

Because Sis—God didn’t call you to copy. He called you to carry what’s uniquely yours.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

Why comparison is one of the enemy’s favorite distractions

How to recognize when you’re minimizing your gift.

What God’s Word says about your calling

Why obedience > visibility

Encouragement to stay in your lane and trust God’s timing

CTA:

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Closing Reminder:

You are not behind.

You are not overlooked.

And you are certainly not disqualified.

You are called, covered, and fully equipped for the assignment God has given you.

Stay in your lane, Sis — there’s glory in it.

Episode Description:

What if wholeness isn’t about being perfect... but about being peaceful, present, and in process?

In today’s episode, Rev. Pat shares her real, raw journey of what wholeness actually looks like—and why so many of us stay stuck chasing a false image of healing.

If you’ve ever felt like you’re too broken, too late, or too messy to be whole, you’re not alone. This conversation will help you breathe again, release shame, and step confidently into the beautiful, holy work of becoming.

In this week's episode, you’ll hear:

Why wholeness isn’t about having it all together

The truth about healing in motion

How to redefine your worth through God’s eyes, not your wounds

Reflection questions to take deeper with God this week

Key Scripture: Isaiah 61:3a "To bestow on them a crown of beauty instead of ashes, the oil of joy instead of mourning, and a garment of praise instead of a spirit of despair".

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Episode Description:

In this episode, Rev. Pat opens up about a real and raw experience with spiritual dryness after the exhausting emotional toll of the COVID-19 season.

If you’ve ever felt like you were still showing up for everyone else while feeling empty inside, this one is for you.

Through her own testimony, she shares the honest, biblical, and practical steps she took to come out of that dry place. You’ll learn how to:

Recognize a dry season for what it is

Release the guilt around needing rest

Reconnect with God through simple, powerful practices

And most importantly, trust that this season will not last forever

This episode is a reminder that your dryness doesn’t disqualify you—God still wants you, loves you, and will refresh you.

Key Scriptures:

Psalm 63:1

Isaiah 44:3

Matthew 11:28

Psalm 13:1

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