Episode Summary:

In this heartfelt episode of Life Beyond the Bible, Rev. Pat opens up about the often unspoken challenges that arise in marriage when one partner has finally healed from past trauma, only to discover that intimacy with their spouse feels distant. She shares her journey of overcoming the lingering pain of sexual abuse and how it changed her experience of intimacy.

This conversation isn’t about blame—it’s about grace, growth, and understanding the seasons of marriage with honesty and love. Whether you're single, newly married, or decades in, this episode offers insight and comfort for any woman navigating change in her relationship.

In this episode, we talk about:

The emotional shift after healing from trauma

How intimacy evolves in long-term relationships

What to do when your desire for closeness isn't matched.

Why communication, grace, and self-awareness are critical.

Encouragement for the woman feeling unseen or emotionally disconnected.

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Podcast: Life Beyond the Bible

Host: Rev. Pat

Duration: 30–45 minutes

🌟 Episode Summary:

In this soul-nourishing episode, Rev. Pat invites you to step beyond your assigned roles—mother, wife, leader, caregiver—and reclaim your God-given identity. Through powerful scriptures and relatable reflections, we explore what it means to be fully known and formed by God long before the world gave us titles.

You were not created to function, you were created for relationship, intimacy, and divine purpose. This conversation will encourage you to grieve the lost parts of yourself, rediscover your joy, and remember who you are in Christ.

📖 Key Scriptures:

Jeremiah 1:5 – “Before I formed you in the womb I knew you…”

Psalm 139:13–16 – “You are fearfully and wonderfully made…”

Luke 10:38–42 Mary of Bethany chose presence over pressure.

🔑 What You’ll Learn:

How roles are temporary, but identity in Christ is eternal

What happens when life shifts and roles change

How biblical women like Deborah, Lydia, and Mary of Bethany lived beyond societal expectations.

How to rediscover joy and return to the version of yourself that feels whole.

A powerful declaration to speak over your life

Declaration:

“I am not just what I do. I am who God formed me to be—on purpose and with purpose.”

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Episode Summary:

In this deeply personal and honest episode, Rev. Pat explores the powerful tension many women carry: showing up for their public callings while navigating private battles. Ministry leaders, mothers, and purpose-driven women often carry silent grief, trauma, and emotional exhaustion—yet still lead, love, and pour.

This episode is your reminder that you are still called, even when no one sees the weight you carry. You don’t have to pretend to be strong for God to use you. He works through your weakness, not around it.

You’ll hear:

• What it means to lead while limping

• How to reframe guilt and pressure as a woman in leadership

• Why your brokenness may be the very reason you’re called

• Reflection questions and a prayer to release shame and embrace your true assignment

Scriptures Referenced:

2 Corinthians 12:9

Isaiah 61:3

Psalm 34:18

Romans 8:28

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