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Let's Talk People-Pleasing! with Charlotte Bailey

Let's Talk People-Pleasing! with Charlotte Bailey

著者: Charlotte Bailey
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Do you often wonder why you find it so hard to say 'no' to people?

  • Maybe you struggle to make time for yourself because you can't switch off — you feel like you should always be doing something.
  • Perhaps you've always felt too sensitive, too dramatic, too needy, too different... 'too much' — and yet never quite enough.
  • Maybe you've been self-sacrificing, suppressing, and masking for so long that it doesn't even feel like a mask anymore — you can’t remember who you really are beneath it.
  • Or you're a therapist or a woman with her own business, someone who cares deeply about what you do — but ‘good girl’ conditioning and spiralling overthinking hold you back from marketing yourself, because being seen doesn’t feel safe.


I'm Charlotte, an experienced psychotherapist, speaker and coach and mentor for women business owners who care deeply about what they do but struggle with overthinking and showing up without the cringe.


I'm so passionate about what I do because for decades, I lived as an anxious people-pleaser—constantly trying to keep others happy so I’d be accepted, always feeling like I was 'too much.'


Until one day, I realised I’d lost myself completely. Something had to change.

When it did, it brought a level of freedom I’d never felt before.

Getting to the root cause helped me let go of the need to please—and finally connect with the real me I’d been suppressing for so long.

With that came a new sense of self-trust, self-belief, and authentic confidence.

And I want you to know: you can find that too.


In the podcast I explore all things people-pleasing, trauma and good-girl conditioning; why you people-please, what the signs are, and the impact it can have on all aspects of your life.


I'll share personal and professional insights and you'll discover tips and strategies to help you stop people-pleasing and break free from what's holding you back, so you can move forward as your authentic self with confidence - in life and in business.

© 2025 Let's Talk People-Pleasing! with Charlotte Bailey
個人的成功 心理学 心理学・心の健康 社会科学 自己啓発 衛生・健康的な生活
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  • What is People-Pleasing? and Why don't you realise you're a people-pleaser? | Ep 43
    2025/07/29

    What is people-pleasing?

    and why do so many of us not realise we’re doing it?

    In this episode I talk about what people-pleasing really looks like - from the outside and the inside. Because I never used to call it people-pleasing either. I just thought I was being “nice,” “easy,” “helpful.” But behind that laid-back, dependable exterior? I was anxious, overthinking, and quietly abandoning myself every single day.

    I cover:

    • Why people-pleasing isn’t the same as being kind
    • The subtle, everyday ways it people-pleasing in plain sight
    • The internalised rules that keep us stuck in people-pleasing and guilt.
    • Where people-pleasing comes from
    • And why it can be so hard to stop people-pleasing, even when we want to change

    This is the episode I probably should’ve made sooner. Whether you’re just beginning to notice your patterns, or deep in the work of unlearning them, I hope this offers the clarity, compassion, and language you’ve been looking for.

    Take the quiz! What's Your People-Pleaser Personality? and discover my 6 step method to unlocking Clarity, Change and Freedom so you can say yes to the real you - without anxiety and guilt.

    Get your FREE Video Visibility Toolkit - discover how to go from cringe to confidence on video

    Join me over on Instagram for regular updates, posts and talks about all things people-pleasing and being visible and feel free to DM me any content ideas: https://www.instagram.com/charlotte_bailey_therapies/

    Visit my website for more information, resources and details on how to work with me https://www.charlottebaileytherapies.com/



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  • Is Your Teenager a People-Pleaser? Early Warning Signs and How to Help | Ep 42
    2025/07/22

    In this episode, I’m covering a question I've been asked on Instagram a few times now: “How do I know if my child is a people-pleaser and what can I do to help?”

    To do this episode justice, I’ve invited the brilliant Becky—an Anxiety Coach for Teenagers and fellow recovering people-pleaser—to join me in exploring this important topic. Becky talks about the work she does, what people-pleasing can look like in teens, and the early warning signs for you to look out for.

    Becky shares practical, compassionate strategies for helping teens break free from self-sacrifice and begin to build confidence, self-trust, and important emotional boundaries. Whether you're a parent, therapist, or educator, this episode offers hope, clarity, and tools to support the young people in your life.

    For more info about Becky and to access her FREE resources head to her website https://www.thebeckyfunk.com/ and check out her Instagram


    Take the quiz! What's Your People-Pleaser Personality? and discover my 6 step method to unlocking Clarity, Change and Freedom so you can say yes to the real you - without anxiety and guilt.

    Get your FREE Video Visibility Toolkit - discover how to go from cringe to confidence on video

    Join me over on Instagram for regular updates, posts and talks about all things people-pleasing and being visible and feel free to DM me any content ideas: https://www.instagram.com/charlotte_bailey_therapies/

    Visit my website for more information, resources and details on how to work with me https://www.charlottebaileytherapies.com/



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  • What Another Therapist Posted Shocked Me into Speaking Up Online - And I Didn't Spiral! | Ep 41
    2025/07/15

    Have you ever read something online that didn't sit right with you?

    Maybe you noticed your heart race and the real pull to say something - but after re-reading your response so many times, worrying it doesn't sound 'right' ... it just felt easier not to post it, to stay silent.

    Or maybe it didn't even cross your mind to respond - it didn't feel like speaking up was an option you were allowed to choose.

    In this episode, I share a real-life moment where I didn't agree with someone and I did speak up —and how that reflects a significant shift from people-pleasing, overthinking, and fear of being seen as “too much.”

    In this episode I explore:

    • The inner tug-of-war between keeping the peace and speaking your truth
    • Why self-expression can feel so risky—especially for women in business and people-pleasers
    • How therapy and nervous system safety helped me find my voice and how you can too.

    If you’ve ever felt stuck between staying quiet or speaking up, this one's for you.

    Take the quiz! What's Your People-Pleaser Personality? and discover my 6 step method to unlocking Clarity, Change and Freedom so you can say yes to the real you - without anxiety and guilt.

    Get your FREE Video Visibility Toolkit - discover how to go from cringe to confidence on video

    Join me over on Instagram for regular updates, posts and talks about all things people-pleasing and being visible and feel free to DM me any content ideas: https://www.instagram.com/charlotte_bailey_therapies/

    Visit my website for more information, resources and details on how to work with me https://www.charlottebaileytherapies.com/



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    26 分
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