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What's it like to find out you have autism as an adult?

In this episode Melissa and Jane sit down with Steve, an adoptive dad and charity volunteer, to talk honestly about parenting two teenagers with neurodivergence.

Steve shares the story of his own autism diagnosis as an adult, and how that helped him support his children.

We also get into self-care that actually works for neurodivergent adults: reducing the constant mental noise, setting boundaries around socialising, and finding environments where you can thrive. Steve reflects on work, inclusion, and why he sometimes prefers a bit of chaos, plus what he has learned from volunteering with adoption and disability communities where “like recognises like” and families finally feel seen.

If you know someone parenting through diagnosis, disability, adoption, autism or ADHD, share this conversation with them, and if it helps, please subscribe and leave a review so more carers and dads can find it.

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One cancelled care shift can wipe out a whole day.

Parent carers often seem able to do it all - because they have to, but that can make friends, family, and professionals assume they can cope without them, and because of that, sometimes, people let them down.

Caring for a child with profound disabilities is not just “busy”. It is a constant mix of medical needs, physical lifting, education battles, and the emotional weight of being the only person who truly knows what “normal” looks like for your child.

In this episode Melissa and Jane discuss what "help" really looks like when you're mum to a disabled child, and how friends, family and even strangers can lighten the load.

They talk about why asking for help can feel impossible when your child has complex medical needs, and why respite care can be something you desperately need yet still dread. If you’ve ever felt guilty for needing a break or judged for not taking one, you’re not alone.

Listen now for real-life tips for supporting parent carers, and a clearer picture of what “showing up” really means.

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When you've seen your child almost die numerous times and you've been living on your nerves for years, your priorities change.

You change. Forever.

Friendships lapse and new friendships form - forged through common hardships.

In this episode of Let's Take Care, mums Jane and Melissa discuss how handling their daughters' illnesses has shaped them.

The two friends explain how trauma has changed their take on life - but they wouldn't have it any other way.

In their usual warm and witty way, Mel and Jane's love and compassion shines through as they talk about their experiences and offer support for other parents of children and young people with disabilities.

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The runaway wheelchair and the havoc of the hoist!

Jane and Melissa look on the bright side in this episode of Let's Take Care, as they remind us laughter really is the best medicine, especially if you're the carer of a young adult or child with disabilities.

The pressure of being a full-time carer is immense and the two mums discuss how looking back on disasters with a smile has helped them face many challenges.

Mel reveals how she put a ghastly social worker in his place and Jane tells us about a toy of Kitty's that went rogue.

This episode is sure to put a smile on your face, whether you're a parent carer or not - and there's help for people who don't know how to act around people with disabilities.

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Being a carer can take a mental and physical toll.

In this New Year episode Jane and Melissa talk about how over the years, they sacrificed their health as they prioritised their children - and why they wished they hadn't.

Melissa opens up about her cancer, and Jane talks about her heart condition.

The two mums share their tips on staying healthy, and they discuss how looking after themselves has made them better parents and partners.

From sound baths to country walks, this episode is full of practical tips plus, as always, plenty of laughs.

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Being Leader of the Liberal Democrat Party hasn't stopped Sir Ed Davey from taking care of his disabled son.

In this frank, compassionate and at times, witty discussion Sir Ed talks fondly about his family and the challenges of being a parent carer.

Caring for a loved one has been a way of life for Sir Ed who first took on caring responsibilities as a child.

Join Jane and Melissa in this intimate, no holds barred chat.

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Being a carer for a young adult with profound disabilities is tough - but it's not our children that make it hard - they're a blessing. It's the system that puts carers under constant pressure.

In this episode Melissa and Jane share their greatest frustrations and discuss the many difficulties families face when they're caring for a child with disabilities.

This episode is a tongue-in-cheek glimpse at the worries caused by the seemingly never-ending bureaucracy that weighs them down.

As always, Melissa and Jane manage to look on the bright side as they rage against the machine.

Whether you're a carer or not, you can't fail to be touched by this insightful episode of Let's Take Care.

Plus...the two mums reveal details of a very special guest who's lined up for the next episode.

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What do you do when friends and family offer unhelpful advice when you're the parent of a child with a disabilities?

How can you protect your marriage or partnership from the strain of overwhelming tiredness and never-ending responsibilities when you are caring for your child twenty-four hours a day?

These are some of the questions Jane and Melissa address in this episode of Let's Take Care - the podcast that supports carers of disabled children.

Listen in on their heartfelt conversation as the two mums talk about their experiences and offer insights for others in similar situations.

There's also a advice for listeners without disabled children, on how best to help.

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