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In this episode, we break down the do’s and don’ts of PFAs in Pennsylvania—what qualifies, what doesn’t, and how a temporary order can impact your custody case down the line. A practical guide with real-world examples and lessons learned the hard way.

Disclaimer: If you are in immediate danger, please always call 911 right away.

Show Notes:

Learn more about Julie Potts, Esq on her website https://juliepottsesq.com

Follow Julie on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lawyerjulie

Follow Julie on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/juliepotts_esq

To contact the podcast with questions, suggestions, or if you are interested in being a guest, please e-mail lawyerjulie55@gmail.com

Please remember that this podcast should not be considered legal advice, and you should always consult your own attorney if you have questions or need clarifications about your specific situation.

This episode of Lawfully After Ever was produced and edited by Emily Murphy.

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Today, we're tackling one of the most common — and most misunderstood — custody questions: When can kids decide where they want to live?

Julie breaks down how Pennsylvania law actually works (hint: kids don't get the final say), why putting children in the middle is damaging, and how judges weigh a child's preference alongside 16 other custody factors.

Plus, we talk about parenting teens in custody situations, appeals when you don't like a court's decision, and why being "the bigger person" isn't just good advice — it's essential. Buckle up, Julie’s fired up on this one!

Show Notes:

Learn more about Julie Potts, Esq on her website https://juliepottsesq.com

Follow Julie on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lawyerjulie

Follow Julie on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/juliepotts_esq

To contact the podcast with questions, suggestions, or if you are interested in being a guest, please e-mail lawyerjulie55@gmail.com

Please remember that this podcast should not be considered legal advice, and you should always consult your own attorney if you have questions or need clarifications about your specific situation.

This episode of Lawfully After Ever was produced and edited by Emily Murphy.

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May is Mental Health Awareness Month, and mental health is a very common subject brought up in court for both divorce and custody cases...so let's talk about it!

In this episode, Julie Potts, a seasoned family law attorney from Chester County, PA, and co-host Emily discuss how mental health is (and isn't) treated in family court, why transparency with your lawyer is critical, and how addressing mental health issues can actually strengthen your case. Plus, they offer real-world advice for navigating custody battles, protecting yourself, and supporting your kids through divorce.

Whether you're new here or a longtime listener, this is the episode to understand the heart of the show — and why information is power.

Link to information mentioned in episode:

The Daily Podcast Episode, "The Parents Aren't All Right": https://www.nytimes.com/2024/10/09/podcasts/the-daily/parenting-stress.html

Kayden's Law in PA: https://www.aclupa.org/en/legislation/sb-78-child-custody-proceedings-kaydens-law

Show Notes:

Learn more about Julie Potts, Esq on her website https://juliepottsesq.com

Follow Julie on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lawyerjulie

Follow Julie on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/juliepotts_esq

To contact the podcast with questions, suggestions, or if you are interested in being a guest, please e-mail lawyerjulie55@gmail.com

Please remember that this podcast should not be considered legal advice, and you should always consult your own attorney if you have questions or need clarifications about your specific situation.

This episode of Lawfully After Ever was produced and edited by Emily Murphy.

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In this episode, we're diving into the LawyerJulie TikTok post that stirred up quite the conversation: my take on why women should never be full-time stay-at-home moms—at least not without a backup plan. Watch the video here:

https://www.tiktok.com/@lawyerjulie/video/7466149689814011178

We break down the financial and personal risks of stepping out of the workforce, the long-term implications of giving up a career, and why independence is key (even if you never need it).

We also tackle some of the top comments and criticisms, including the "Who hurt you?" response. Spoiler: No one, but life experience and years in family law have shown Julie how quickly things can change. Plus, we discuss social security benefits, postnups, and how couples can proactively protect a stay-at-home spouse’s future.

Oh, and trolls? We see you. And we’re not losing sleep.

Want to ask a free legal question for a future episode on our new podcast project? Apply for an Initial Consult at https://juliepottsesq.com/apply-for-the-initial-consult/

Show Notes:

Learn more about Julie Potts, Esq on her website https://juliepottsesq.com

Follow Julie on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lawyerjulie

Follow Julie on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/juliepotts_esq

To contact the podcast with questions, suggestions, or if you are interested in being a guest, please e-mail lawyerjulie55@gmail.com

Please remember that this podcast should not be considered legal advice, and you should always consult your own attorney if you have questions or need clarifications about your specific situation.

This episode of Lawfully After Ever was produced and edited by Emily Murphy.

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Are you facing a family law issue and drowning in bad advice from the internet? AnnouncingThe Initial Consult, a future podcast where Pennsylvania family law attorney Julie Potts gives real answers to real people—just like she would in an actual consultation. No sugarcoating, no false hope—just practical legal insight and tough truths to help you make informed decisions.

Each episode features anonymous consultations covering custody battles, divorce disputes, and the emotional complexities that come with them. Whether you're preparing for your own consult, looking for clarity in a tough situation, or just fascinated by the real-life drama of family law, this podcast is for you.

Join Julie and producer Emily as they strip away the myths, expose the common pitfalls, and give you the knowledge you need to navigate the legal system—without the expensive hourly rate. Because in family law, what you need to hear is often very different from what you want to hear.

Want to be a guest? Visit JuliePottsESQ.com to apply for a confidential consultation.

Show Notes:

Learn more about Julie Potts, Esq on her website https://juliepottsesq.com

Follow Julie on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lawyerjulie

Follow Julie on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/juliepotts_esq

To contact the podcast with questions, suggestions, or if you are interested in being a guest, please e-mail lawyerjulie55@gmail.com

Please remember that this podcast should not be considered legal advice, and you should always consult your own attorney if you have questions or need clarifications about your specific situation.

This episode of Lawfully After Ever was produced and edited by Emily Murphy.

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In this episode of Lawfully Ever After, Julie Potts, Esq. dives into emotionally charged scenarios pulled from Reddit that mirror the challenges of modern relationships and divorce.

From the rise of "gray divorces" to navigating unexpected separation, they explore the interplay of control, independence, and communication in marriages.

They discuss how societal shifts have influenced divorce trends, why emotions often cloud legal decisions, and how to approach difficult conversations with honesty and respect.

Whether you're seeking advice on co-parenting, understanding your partner’s perspective, or how to keep your identity while parenting, this episode offers relatable stories, legal insights, and timeless wisdom.

Listen in for heartfelt discussions, practical advice, and a few laughs along the way!

Show Notes:

Learn more about Julie Potts, Esq on her website https://juliepottsesq.com

Follow Julie on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lawyerjulie

Follow Julie on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/juliepotts_esq

To contact the podcast with questions, suggestions, or if you are interested in being a guest, please e-mail lawyerjulie55@gmail.com

Please remember that this podcast should not be considered legal advice, and you should always consult your own attorney if you have questions or need clarifications about your specific situation.

This episode of Lawfully After Ever was produced and edited by Emily Murphy.

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In this educational episode, Julie and Emily pull back the curtain on the complexities of custody cases, focusing on how trials are scheduled, prepared, and ultimately decided. Julie shares her real-world experience managing a high-stakes case, from the years-long delays caused by procedural rules to the intense preparation required to present evidence and witnesses effectively.

Listeners will learn about the often-misunderstood steps of custody litigation, including conciliations, pre-trial conferences, and evidentiary hearings. Julie explains the importance of due process, how judges approach their rulings, and why representing yourself without legal assistance can lead to costly mistakes.

Whether you’re navigating your own custody situation or simply curious about how the family court system works, this episode offers valuable insights into the legal process, the costs (both financial and emotional), and the importance of thoughtful decision-making before heading to court.

Plus, Julie and Emily reflect on the human side of the law, emphasizing the importance of having a passionate, prepared advocate by your side.

Show Notes:

Learn more about Julie Potts, Esq on her website https://juliepottsesq.com

Follow Julie on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lawyerjulie

Follow Julie on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/juliepotts_esq

To contact the podcast with questions, suggestions, or if you are interested in being a guest, please e-mail lawyerjulie55@gmail.com

Please remember that this podcast should not be considered legal advice, and you should always consult your own attorney if you have questions or need clarifications about your specific situation.

This episode of Lawfully After Ever was produced and edited by Emily Murphy.

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In this episode, we dive into the common pitfalls of custody battles and how taking a "scorched earth" approach often backfires.

Julie Potts, Esq. shares real-life examples of cases where focusing on the negative failed and how shifting the narrative to a more positive, cooperative stance led to better outcomes for both parents and children.

We discuss the importance of letting go of past grievances, reframing issues constructively, and how the right approach can not only save time and money but also promote healthier co-parenting relationships.

Whether you're navigating a custody case or just interested in family law, this episode offers valuable insights on how to avoid unnecessary conflict and focus on what truly matters—the well-being of the children involved.

Show Notes:

Learn more about Julie Potts, Esq on her website https://juliepottsesq.com

Follow Julie on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lawyerjulie

Follow Julie on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/juliepotts_esq

To contact the podcast with questions, suggestions, or if you are interested in being a guest, please e-mail lawyerjulie55@gmail.com

Please remember that this podcast should not be considered legal advice, and you should always consult your own attorney if you have questions or need clarifications about your specific situation.

This episode of Lawfully After Ever was produced and edited by Emily Murphy.