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In this episode, we explore what lament means according to Scripture and why it is so much more than simply venting. We look at Jesus in Gethsemane as a model for bringing fear, vulnerability, community, and endurance into our relationship with God.

My guest Valerie Lilley (Executive Director - (The Job Project) also explores how lament helps us name our emotions, regulate our bodies, and process pain without abandoning our faith. We discuss the important difference between complaining about God and bringing our complaints to God, and how spiritual bypassing can block healing by keeping our beliefs intellectual rather than allowing us to invite God into the places that hurt.

Through her personal story of OCD, anxiety, shame, and learning to invite God into the mess, Valerie reminds us that grief, anger, fear, and pain are not evidence of a lack of faith.

Lament can be prayer.
Lament can be supplication.
Lament can include thanksgiving.
Lament can lead us toward renewed thinking.

Find Valerie

• Instagram: valerie.aneiza and thejobproject.co
• TikTok: thejobproject.co
• YouTube: The Job Project Podcast.
• Website : https://www.thejobproject.co/
• Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-job-project-podcast-mental-health-the-gospel/id1479614432

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• IG-https://www.instagram.com/mseve_mseve/

How to cope with Trauma
“Talk to a few trusted people, open up about your struggle, seek online support groups, read self-help books or practice small acts of self-care such as meditation, breath work, yoga and exercise can help you regain some feeling of control.”

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Triumph Over Trauma Scripture: II Corinthians 2:14 Now thanks be unto to God , who always causes us to Triumph in Christ....

Books I'm reading on my healing journey

• The Body Keeps the Score - https://www.amazon.com/dp/0143127748/ref=cm_sw_r_em_api_i_HXH4RMNC329DT7VPQ5WG
• Trauma & Recovery https://www.amazon.com/dp/0465061710/ref=cm_sw_r_em_api_i_
• It didnt start with you Ihttps://a.co/d/3CZwWao

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2 Corinthians 2:14 Now thanks be unto God, who always causes us to Triumph!