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 Lovers by Shan is an education-first space where listeners come to better understand their own intimate lives through the life lessons and expertise of others. Shan Boodram’s mission is to empower everyone to be their own intimacy expert in the bedroom and beyond by treating guests of the podcast as educators in their own right.

Past guest include Kelly Rowland who taught us about being a sensualist. Becky G who shared the importance of healthy love in an unhealthy body. Kerry Washington who warned about the dangers of keeping secrets. Kamie Crawford who taught us about the joys of breaking up. Jesse Reyez who reminded us that it's alright to admit you're the one who let a good one get away.

When we paused in 2023 we had 5.1 million listeners and 8 million YouTube views. Excited to see how many lives we can impact in 2025 with our fresh look and approach.All Rights Reserved 人間関係 社会科学 衛生・健康的な生活
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  • S2 Ep149: When Conflict Turns Lovers Into Exes ft. Touré Neblett

    S2 Ep149: When Conflict Turns Lovers Into Exes ft. Touré Neblett
    2025/12/17
    Conflict is inevitable in long-term relationships. Damage doesn’t have to be.

    In this episode, we explore what actually separates fights that bring couples closer from fights that quietly turn lovers into enemies. We talk about the moment arguments go sideways, why so many conflicts feel bigger than the issue at hand, and how couples can stay on the same team even when they fundamentally disagree.

    Our guest, Touré Neblett, draws on decades of navigating high-stakes, contentious conversations both publicly and privately to share what he’s learned about emotional regulation, repair, and conflict inside a long-term marriage. This conversation focuses on how disagreement can exist without contempt, and how learning to fight differently can fundamentally change the trajectory of a relationship.

    Important context for listeners: We became aware of a workplace sexual harassment allegation involving our guest, Touré Neblett, from 2017, which he has publicly acknowledged and apologized for. Given the focus of this show, we felt it was important to acknowledge that context.

    Follow Touré
    Website → https://toure.com Toure
    Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/toureshow/ Instagram
    YouTube → https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCo-SwvkGbQgDt3oXfASPPJQ youtube.com
    Podcast → Touré Show (Apple/Spotify)
    Books → Who’s Afraid of Post-Blackness? What It Means to Be Black Now; I Would Die 4 U: Why Prince Became an Icon; Soul City; Never Drank the Kool-Aid; The Portable Promised Land; Nothing Compares 2 U (available on Amazon and major booksellers)

    Want more Lover?
    Shan’s AI trained to give you her advice → http://loversbyshan.com
    Receive the weekly Love Letter → http://loversbyshan.com/newsletter
    Join the Lovers Community → https://www.loversbyshan.com/community
    Explore quizzes and worksheets → http://loversbyshan.com/quizzes
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    53 分
  • S2 Ep148: Sharing My HIV Diagnosis Changed Everything For Me ft. Jonathan Van Ness

    S2 Ep148: Sharing My HIV Diagnosis Changed Everything For Me ft. Jonathan Van Ness
    2025/12/01
    Did you know, in 2023, more than 39,000 people were diagnosed with HIV in the United States and six territories, with Hispanic and Black individuals each accounting for more than a third (Source. CDC)

    In this episode of LOVERS, Shan sits down with Jonathan Van Ness for a conversation about receiving an HIV diagnosis, the years he kept it private, and the moment he decided he wanted the story to come from him. Jonathan shares what it felt like to catch himself holding back during interviews, how choosing to speak changed his relationship with his own truth, and the sense of relief that followed once he stopped protecting something that shaped so much of his life.

    They also talk about the realities of HIV today, why knowing your status matters, and how tools like PrEP fit into the larger picture of staying informed and reducing stigma.

    Follow Jonathan Van Ness
    Website → https://jonathanvanness.com/
    Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/jvn
    YouTube → https://www.youtube.com/jvn
    JVN Hair → https://jvnhair.com/
    Podcast → https://jonathanvanness.com/podcasts/
    Books → https://jonathanvanness.com/books/

    Want more Lover?
    Shan’s AI trained to give you her advice → http://loversbyshan.com
    Receive the weekly Love Letter → http://loversbyshan.com/newsletter
    Join the Lovers Community → https://www.loversbyshan.com/community
    Explore quizzes and worksheets → http://loversbyshan.com/quizzes
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    54 分
  • S2 Ep146: Love Has Destroyed Me So Why Do I Keep Trying? ft Sabrina Claudio

    S2 Ep146: Love Has Destroyed Me So Why Do I Keep Trying? ft Sabrina Claudio
    2025/11/19
    In this episode of LOVERS, Shan sits down with singer and songwriter Sabrina Claudio for a conversation about heartbreak, loneliness, friendship, and the lessons that shaped her new album.

    Sabrina talks openly about how loneliness can quietly influence decisions, including staying in relationships that feel draining. She shares what it was like to feel isolated even while partnered, why she struggled to speak up about what she was going through, and how she eventually chose to walk away. We also explore the idea of emotional detox, the feeling of carrying someone long after the relationship ends, and the moment she realized she needed to release what was weighing her down.

    If you have ever tried to heal while still holding on, or wondered why connection sometimes feels complicated, this conversation offers insight and companionship.

    Referenced in this episode: Bronfenbrenner’s Ecological Systems Theory — the idea that our development is shaped by multiple layers of environment (from family + friends all the way to culture + society).

    Follow Sabrina Claudio
    Sabrina’s short film Fall In Love With Her
    Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/sabrinaclaudio
    Twitter → https://twitter.com/sabrinaclaudio
    YouTube → https://www.youtube.com/c/SabrinaClaudio
    Website → https://www.sabrinaclaudio.co

    Want more Lover?
    Shan’s AI trained to give you her advice → http://loversbyshan.com
    Receive the weekly Love Letter → http://loversbyshan.com/newsletter
    Join the Lovers Community → https://www.loversbyshan.com/community
    Explore quizzes and worksheets → http://loversbyshan.com/quizzes
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    48 分
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