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LOVERS by shan

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 Lovers by Shan is an education-first space where listeners come to better understand their own intimate lives through the life lessons and expertise of others. Shan Boodram’s mission is to empower everyone to be their own intimacy expert in the bedroom and beyond by treating guests of the podcast as educators in their own right.

Past guest include Kelly Rowland who taught us about being a sensualist. Becky G who shared the importance of healthy love in an unhealthy body. Kerry Washington who warned about the dangers of keeping secrets. Kamie Crawford who taught us about the joys of breaking up. Jesse Reyez who reminded us that it's alright to admit you're the one who let a good one get away.

When we paused in 2023 we had 5.1 million listeners and 8 million YouTube views. Excited to see how many lives we can impact in 2025 with our fresh look and approach.All Rights Reserved 人間関係 社会科学 衛生・健康的な生活
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  • S2 Ep131: The Eartha Kitt Effect Why Women Are Happily Choosing the Single Life for Life

    S2 Ep131: The Eartha Kitt Effect Why Women Are Happily Choosing the Single Life for Life
    2025/08/06
    What if “happily ever after” starts and ends with just you?

    In this bold and expansive episode, Shan dives into The Eartha Kitt Effect—a cultural and emotional awakening inspired by the legendary performer Eartha Kitt, whose unapologetic views on love, compromise, and individuality continue to resonate decades later. This “effect” refers to the growing movement of people, especially women, who are choosing the single life on purpose, not by default.

    Joining Shan is Dr. Bella DePaulo, renowned social psychologist and author of Single at Heart, to unpack why some of the most fulfilled people are not in romantic relationships—and never want to be.

    Together, they explore:

    • 🔥 Why Eartha Kitt’s viral interview moment ("Compromise? For what?") sparked a generation of self-partnership

    • 🌱 How choosing not to center romance can lead to deeper personal growth, freedom, and connection

    • 🧠 The science behind happiness in singlehood and the myth of the “incomplete” single person

    • 💔 How media and social norms still stigmatize solo living—and what it looks like to rewrite your own happy ending

    Eartha’s now-iconic 1982 interview, where she laughs at the idea of compromising for a man, has become a symbol for self-honoring love. Her words echo across social media as more people step into identities that aren’t centered on romantic validation but on personal wholeness.

    Whether you're single by choice, rethinking long-term relationships, or simply seeking permission to define love your way—this episode is your affirmation.

    ✨ The Eartha Kitt Effect is here so listen now and ask yourself: What if “happily ever after” starts and ends with you?


    🔗 Follow Bella DePaulo:
     Website: belladepaulo.com
    Books: Single at Heart, How We Live Now, and more – Amazon


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     → Meet Shan’s AI trained to give only her advice to you: loversbyshan.com
    → Get a free weekly Love Letter straight to your inbox: Join the newsletter
    → Join the Lovers Community: loversbyshan.com/community
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    📩 For ads or inquiries: team@loversbyshan.com
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    42 分
  • S2 Ep130: No One Talks About How Hard Making Friends As An Adult Is ft. Krista Williams

    S2 Ep130: No One Talks About How Hard Making Friends As An Adult Is ft. Krista Williams
    2025/07/30
    Does making friends get harder as you get older? How the hell do I make friends? This episode is a rerun, and it's STILL very accurate. According to the American Perspective Survey, May 2021, many people are not satisfied with the size of their friendship group. About half of Americans (51 percent) report they are very satisfied or completely satisfied with the number of friends they have. 30 percent say they are only somewhat satisfied, and 17 percent say they are not too or not at all satisfied with the number of friends they have. If you fall in that range of little to no satisfaction in friendships, here’s what you need to know about creating a bond. So, how long does it take to make a new friend? - 50 hours before you consider them a casual friend - 90 hours before becoming real friends - 200hours- before becoming close friends source: 'Journal of Social and Personal Relationships' As the New York Times reported in 2012, there are “three conditions that sociologists since the 1950s have considered crucial to making close friends: proximity; repeated, unplanned interactions; and a setting that encourages people to let their guard down and confide in each other.” Cultivating emotionally intimate relationships, in other words, takes more work than just compliments. In this episode, I sit down with my friends Krista and Tabia, and we talk about our friendships, the ups, downs, and the work it takes to make them work. A special thank you to Kamil Lewis, LMF,T, and Danielle Bayard-Jacskon, Bumble Friendship Expert, for lending their expertise on forming friendships. Follow the guests on this episode: Follow Shan: https://www.instagram.com/shanboodram/ http://tiktok.com/shanboody / @loversbyshan Follow Krista: https://www.instagram.com/itskrista/ https://www.instagram.com/almost30podcast/ Follow Tabia: https://www.instagram.com/tabiacharles/ Follow Danielle Bayard-Jackson https://www.instagram.com/daniellebayardjackson/ https://www.instagram.com/friendforward/ Follow Kamil Lewis, LMFT https://www.instagram.com/kamil.lewis/?hl=en https://www.instagram.com/theexpansivegroup/?hl=en https://www.instagram.com/safewordpod/ Advertising & Other Inquiries: team@loversbyshan.com
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    58 分
  • S2 Ep129: Is a Good Man Good Enough? ft. Miranda Rae Mayo

    S2 Ep129: Is a Good Man Good Enough? ft. Miranda Rae Mayo
    2025/07/23

    What if the love story you were chasing… was never really yours?

    In this episode, actress Miranda Rae Mayo joins Shan to explore the journey of finding love by letting go of the fantasy. Known for her role on Chicago Fire, Miranda opens up about her current relationship and how she had to release the pressure to be “perfect” to experience a real connection.

    Together, they explore how love doesn’t always look the way we expected, and why exploring non-monogamy challenged (and expanded) her thoughts around love, security, and partnership.

    🔗 Follow Miranda

    Miranda https://www.instagram.com/mrmayo
    Follow her exclusive project https://www.instagram.com/hereshecomestv/

    Want more Lover?

    Checkout Shan’s AI trained to give only her advice to you http://loversbyshan.com

    Sign up to get a free weekly Love Letter from me http://loversbyshan.com/newsletter

    💞 Join the Lovers Community: https://www.loversbyshan.com/community

    Checkout free quizzes and worksheets designed to help you deepen your relationships http://loversbyshan.com/newsletter
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    52 分
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