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What happens when you stop treating jealousy as a problem to fix and start treating it as a teacher? In episode 213, Leah Piper and Dr. Willow Brown sit down with tantra teacher, mystic, muse, and mentor Kamala Devi McClure. They have lived an open polyamorous marriage for 25 years, some of it in front of television cameras. Kamala Devi gets real about what ethical non-monogamy actually asks of you: honesty about your thoughts, fantasies, and desires, a shared value for growth, and the willingness to repair when things break. They walk us through the many versions of their open marriage, including a 10 page group contract, an experiment with relationship anarchy, and infidelity on both sides. We explore their new book, One Fool’s Journey, which turns the 22 Major Arcana of the tarot into chapters of their life. The Strength card is their jealousy chapter, and the Emperor card was inspired by Charles Muir. If you want to know how to handle jealousy in polyamory, how to keep an open marriage honest, or how tarot archetypes can help you rewrite your own story, this conversation is for you.

EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS

• Why “open marriage” first meant open communication, not multiple lovers
• The one rule everyone at the table agrees on: don’t lie and hide
• Jealousy as your animal nature, and why befriending it works better than trying to conquer it
• Attunement over agreements: moving from calendars and contracts to feeling your impact on each other
• The Devil card and the hidden addiction to intensity on the spiritual path
• In The Dish, Leah and Willow ask whether “patriarchy” still serves us or whether “power dynamics” and “conditioning” land better

LINKS & RESOURCES MENTIONED IN THE EPISODE CAN BE FOUND ON THE WEBSITE: https://www.sexreimagined.com/blog/jealousy-in-polyamory

Peak Erotic Experiences | Live Masterclass | Oct 28, 2026 @ 4pm Pacific. Your hottest moments were never random, they're built from four hidden forces researcher Jack Morin identified in his work on peak erotic experiences. Join Leah live on October 1st to find your own pattern and learn how to build more of it on purpose. Register for $33 HERE

The Couples Sacred Spot Retreat | Santa Barbara, Nov 6-8
We are bringing our most intimate couples workshop to California. Over three days, you will learn Sacred Spot Massage, Erotic Attunement, sensual touch as a somatic practice, and the ritual skills that change the way partners meet each other in the body. Ten couple spots only. Register Here

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A New Tantra Exploration, Live in Santa Barbara Leah & Willow are hosting a live 90 minute intro night called A New Tantra Exploration, tracing this ancient practice back to where it began, breath, touch, & all. Fully clothed, beginner friendly, open to solos and couples. November 6, 2026 and January 29, 2027. Grab your seat at $25 early bird / $35 at the door | 90 min https://www.sexreimagined.com/events

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