In this episode, I open up about the daily reality of being "unboxable"—living with ADD/ADHD and navigating a society that constantly tries to box you in through social policing. I share the internal conflict between wanting to be social and protecting my limited energy, and how I finally found my happy medium through hosting the Corpus Christi Originals podcast. I dive into how growing up "weird" can be isolating, but also how it forced me to spend hours alone mastering the guitar, playing Nintendo, and developing creative tools that I now get to share with the world.

I also offer practical advice for my fellow neurodivergent community on navigating the workplace. I talk about the absolute necessity of finding a highly marketable trade—like truck driving, plumbing, or electrical work—so that if you don't jive with a specific corporate culture, you always have the freedom to take your skills elsewhere. Grounded in my faith, I reflect on my accomplishments as a husband, father, college graduate, and professional driver to serve as a testimony and a reminder that we are called to be the salt and light of the earth.

• (00:00:00) - Having ADD Adhd, I Want to Be Social but
• (00:08:26) - Autistic Comedian on Social Policing
• (00:17:05) - Addison's ADHD and Neurodiversity: How to Work

In this episode, I share my personal insights and experiences on what it takes to set firm boundaries with narcissists and toxic people trying to overstep your bounds. I open up about the immense courage it takes to break old patterns and say "no," especially when you're used to having your boundaries constantly pushed back. From recognizing the uncomfortable cycle of being gaslit to utilizing practical tools like the "grey rock" method , I break down how a narcissist’s need for control has everything to do with them and nothing to do with you. Whether you are navigating toxic dynamics at work, in your creative scene, or within your family, I discuss facing the initial awkwardness head-on to find ultimate peace, build resilience, and claim a major win for your mental well-being.

• (00:00:00) - How to Set Boundaries With a Narcissist
• (00:06:54) - How To Deal With a Narcissist
• (00:07:28) - How to Deal with a Narcissist
• (00:12:29) - Go No Contact

In this episode, I pull back the curtain on a recent TikTok comment challenging my debt-free lifestyle with the classic argument, "Be honest, nobody buys a car or house with cash". Well, I'm being completely honest: my wife and I do buy our cars with cash, and I dive into the exact discipline it took to make that happen—including the 3 to 6 months I spent taking the bus, walking, and hitching rides after wrecking my truck just to avoid a car loan. While the commenter was half right that we didn't buy our house with a massive lump sum of upfront cash, we didn't use a bank either; instead, we utilized a notarized, rent-to-own owner-finance agreement to pay it off completely in around 5 to 6 years. Inspired by a semi-modified version of Dave Ramsey's principles, I talk about going against the grain of normal society, navigating the critics who will always find something to say, and the immense mental freedom that comes from knowing a job layoff wouldn't cause a financial crisis because we don't owe a dime to anyone.

• (00:00:00) - I Didn't Buy My Car Cash or My House Cash
• (00:05:46) - A Little Money in the Bank

In this episode, I share the personal journey of how my wife and I transformed our lives by tackling $50,000 in debt—including $46,000 in student loans—in less than two years. I dive into the "game-changing" shift from viewing ourselves as owners of money to becoming stewards of it, explaining how a disciplined budget and open communication in marriage helped us eliminate the stress and fighting that once plagued our home. By breaking down my Give, Save, and Spend framework, I explore why financial responsibility isn't about how much you make, but how you manage what you have to protect yourself against a fluctuating economy. From selling my instruments and cutting subscriptions to building an emergency fund, I discuss how living below your means provides the ultimate creative freedom and mental peace to face rising prices without fear.

• (00:00:00) - Having Control of Your Money
• (00:06:49) - Budgeting For Money
• (00:15:25) - Spending habits: Give, Save, and Spend
• (00:21:46) - Be Fair With Your Prices
• (00:25:46) - Be Careful With Money!

In this episode, I dive into the challenges of navigating a world built for the "norm" while living with ADHD and neurodiversity. I share a recent experience from a live stream where I had to handle social policing—those moments when critics try to put you in a box or tell you to "say it better".

I explore the internal struggle of self-consciousness regarding speech and communication, the reality of being an "easy target" for bullies, and the bravery required to remain creative in front of naysayers. From learning to talk about the weather to finding the courage to take a "deep dive," this episode is about building character, setting boundaries, and celebrating the wins that come from simply being yourself. Whether you have ADD, OCD, or are just someone trying to find your voice, let's talk about why it’s essential to "do it in front of them" and embrace your unique brain wiring.

• (00:00:00) - Adhd Comedians: Social Policing
• (00:09:42) - Comments on Adhd

In this episode of The Jesus Hilario Show, I’m diving deep into my debt-free journey. It’s been about three years since my wife and I reached a point of having absolutely no debt—no house payments, no car payments, and no student loans. I discuss the intense "social policing" we faced from people telling us that staying in debt was the "normal" way to live, and how we pushed through with overtime, sacrifice, and a commitment to our future. If you’re feeling stuck in the cycle of credit cards and car notes, I’m sharing the practical steps we took to find true financial freedom.

• (00:00:00) - "I'm debt free..."
• (00:01:32) - How To Get Out Of Debt In 2 Years
• (00:08:13) - How to Live Debt-Free
• (00:14:34) - Getting Out of Debt
• (00:20:11) - How to Take a Picture Without Debt
• (00:20:34) - How to Get Out of Debt:
• (00:22:20) - Getting Out Of Debt: The Takeaways

In this episode of The Jesus Hilario Show, I’m reflecting on what 12-plus years of marriage has taught me about faith, trust, and the reality of shared life. I dive into how our expectations often clash with reality, the importance of keeping the covenant we made at the altar, and how we’ve learned to navigate my ADHD within our relationship. Whether you are single and seeking a partner or have been married for decades, I’m sharing why marriage is the "next level" of human growth and why joy is more important than just being "happy".

• (00:00:00) - How to Get Married Again
• (00:06:29) - Understanding the Need for Trust in Marriage
• (00:13:33) - How ADHD affects your marriage
• (00:16:28) - Another topic for me to talk about

In this episode of The Jesus Hilario Show, I’m talking about my recent journey rediscovering my passion for the guitar. From my early days learning metal music to earning a degree in classical guitar, I’ve realized how much I’ve missed the instrument. I dive into why I’m looking at eight-string electrics, why learning to read music is a complete game-changer, and how to ignore the "social policing" that tries to keep you from practicing your craft.

• (00:00:00) - Ibanez Guitar Back in the Studio
• (00:04:21) - Guitarist On Reading Music
• (00:11:10) - Contemporary Music: Social Policing
• (00:13:57) - Social Policing