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It's Not Me, It's You

It's Not Me, It's You

著者: Vanessa Castillo and Matthew Castillo
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Love is messy. Dating is chaotic. And sometimes, it’s not you... it’s definitely them. Or is it? Join sibling duo Vanessa and Matthew Castillo (11 years apart but equally chaotic) as they dive into the wild world of relationships, fireside chat style. From ghosting and cringe-worthy situationships to long-term love and red flags we all ignore. Expect real talk, unfiltered laughs, and hard truths. Whether you’re single, cuffed, or somewhere in between, you’ll leave every episode feeling a little less alone, and a lot more entertained. Come for the laughs, stay for the relatable chaos. ♥️ 💔Vanessa Castillo and Matthew Castillo 人間関係 社会科学
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  • Play to Win: Dating, Self-Love & Finding Your Person
    2026/09/03

    You gotta play to win. 🎙️❤️

    This week, we’re joined by Natasha for a conversation that keeps coming back to one thing: the relationship you have with yourself.

    Because before you can figure out who you want to date, what you want from a relationship, or whether someone is actually right for you… you probably need to know yourself first.

    We get into why knowing and loving yourself can keep you from settling, why sometimes the best relationships start as friendships, and what it really means to find someone who fits into the life you already love.

    We talk about ignoring colored flags 🚩, the idea that “there’s somebody for everybody,” why dating is a little bit like playing to win, and whether relationships are really 50/50—or whether both people need to show up with 100% to make something work.

    It's another one of those conversations that goes everywhere, gets real, gets funny, and leaves us asking the bigger question:

    Are you actually ready for the kind of love you're looking for?

    Because maybe it's not about finding the one.

    Maybe it's about becoming the version of yourself who knows exactly what—and who—is for you. ❤️

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    54 分
  • WTF is Modern Dating?
    2026/08/02

    WTF Is Modern Dating? 🤦‍♂️💘

    Seriously... what is going on out here?

    In this episode, we're unpacking the chaos that is modern dating. From ghosting and mixed signals to situationships, dating apps, "soft launching," breadcrumbing, and all the unspoken rules nobody asked for, we're trying to make sense of a dating world that somehow gets more confusing every year.

    We share our own experiences, laugh at the absurdity of it all, debate whether today's dating culture is helping or hurting us, and ask the question everyone seems to be thinking:

    Has dating always been this crazy... or are we just living through the weirdest era of love?

    Whether you're single, dating, happily taken, or somewhere in the "it's complicated" category, this one's for you.

    Real conversations. Real opinions. Plenty of laughs.

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    51 分
  • From Horoscope to Horrorscope: Is He Cooking or Cooked?
    2026/04/15

    EPISODE 16

    This episode goes from horoscopes to straight-up horrorscopes real quick 😭


    We sit down with our guest and get into his dating history (being in love not once, but twice, almost getting engaged, and all the chaos in between). Somewhere along the way, we start questioning if it was real love… or just the stars playing games.


    We talk zodiac signs, patterns in dating, red flags we ignored, and those moments where you really have to ask yourself: are they cooking… or are they actually cooked?


    It’s funny, a little unhinged, and way too relatable if you’ve ever tried to make sense of your love life through a birth chart.

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    1 時間 2 分
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