She left Boston for love.

The love didn’t last.

What came after… she’s still figuring out.

This week on It’s Not Me, It’s You, we sit down with Lena the Stitcha... a guest who says less but makes you lean in more. She moved cities, changed chapters, and while she may not have all the answers, her presence says there’s more beneath the surface.

We talk about starting over, the quiet in-between, and what it means to date when you’re still piecing together who you’ve become.

Not everything was said, and maybe that’s the point.

Listen in, lean closer, and see what you pick up.

This one’s exactly what it sounds like... real talk, no filter. We sat down with our homie Louiekillz, an artist and self-declared reformed hoe, and let’s just say… the conversation got wild.

From running the streets and not being ready, to trying to figure out what love even looks like now, we covered it all. It’s giving locker room talk, mixed with just enough honesty to catch you off guard.

It’s messy, it’s funny, and it’s real. Just how we like it.

PSA: This episode is meant to be entertaining and perspective-based. It’s full of jokes, hot takes, and personal experiences, not relationship advice. So take what resonates, leave what doesn’t, and most importantly… enjoy the chaos.

Grab your drink and pull up a seat... it’s another fireside chat with your favorite sibling duo! In this episode, Vanessa (the “seasoned vet”) and Matt (the self-proclaimed “rookie”) go head-to-head on the ever-changing battlefield of love.

We’re talking about dating do’s and don’ts, how intimacy has evolved, and much much more. No scripts. No filters. Just real convos, loud laughs, and sibling chaos as always.

Hit play and join us. 💥