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In marriage, friendships, and even our closest family relationships, it's easy to become so focused on proving our point that we forget the person standing across from us is someone we're called to love.

But what if winning the argument is actually costing us an opportunity to reflect Jesus?

In this episode of It's Deeper Than That, we're exploring how pride, humility, and biblical love shape the way we navigate conflict. Through Scripture, we'll unpack the difference between speaking truth in love verses using truth as a weapon, why biblical knowledge doesn't always equal spiritual maturity, and how even our disagreements can become opportunities for spiritual growth.

Drawing from 1 Corinthians 13, James 4, and Philippians 2, we'll examine what it means to extend patience, kindness, and grace to the people closest to us - especially when we feel misunderstood, frustrated, or absolutely certain that we're right.

Because the goal of a Christ-centered marriage isn't to determine who wins every disagreement. It's to cultivate a relationship where both people are learning to love more like Jesus.

Sometimes the greatest victory isn't hearing, "You were right." It's knowing that even in disagreement, you chose love.

Let's look a little deeper. 🤍

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Why does change feel so uncomfortable - even when the change is good?

In the final episode of the Psych Series, Ashley explores the psychology behind why our brains crave familiarity, why transitions can leave us feeling unsettled, and how changes in our circumstances can challenge our sense of identity.

But change and growth aren’t the same thing.

Change happens to us; growth is what we allow God to produce through it.

Through psychology, the Bible, and Ashley’s own journey from her military career to become a stay-at-home mom, this episode explores how changing seasons can become catalysts for internal and spiritual transformation.

Abraham stepped into the unknown, the pruning of John 15, and the reminder that there is “a season, and a time for every matter under heaven,” - we see again and again that God often does some of His deepest work in seasons of transition.

You don’t have to hate the old season to embrace the new one. You can grieve what was, thank God for what it gave you, and still trust Him with what comes next.

Because while seasons change, Jesus Christ is the same yesterday and today and forever. - Hebrews 13:8

Research for this Episode:

https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/36965452/

https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC9298910/?utm_source=chatgpt.com

https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/2204951/

https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/1239500/

https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/29331446/

https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/41620241/

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Discernment is a word we use often in Christian circles - but what does it actually mean to be discerning?

In this episode, we’re talking about the difference between biblical discernment and simply having a “bad feeling.” We’ll unpack how fear, anxiety, past experiences, and even our own biases can influence what we perceive - and why Scripture calls us to test what we believe we’re hearing from God.

Discernment isn’t about becoming suspicious of everyone around us. It’s about becoming so familiar with the heart, character, and Word of God that we learn to recognize what aligns with Him, and what doesn’t.

Feelings are information, but they aren’t always revelation. 🤍