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When the intrusive thoughts won't stop. When prayer becomes compulsion. When you're doing everything "right" and still drowning.

This is one of those episodes where we go there... to the places most Christians are afraid to talk about. My co-host Jasmine shares her raw, unfiltered journey through intrusive thoughts so dark and perverse that she couldn't even be around children. Pedophilic imagery. Sexual thoughts. The kind of thoughts that made her question her salvation, her character, and whether God could possibly still love her.

And here's the kicker... she was doing everything right. Praying. Fasting. Deliverance conferences. Scripture all over her walls. But the intrusive thoughts wouldn't stop.

What we cover:

• The difference between intrusive thoughts and sin (spoiler: they're not the same)
• Religious scrupulosity: when spiritual disciplines and practices become compulsions that keep you trapped
• Why your brain attaches intrusive thoughts to what you love most
• The moment God asked Jasmine to stop striving and what happened next
• How rest (not more effort) became the pathway to freedom
• The dangerous assumption that your thoughts = your character

This isn't about tips to think more positively or trying harder. This is about a God who's more interested in you understanding His love than in you performing your way to freedom.

If you've ever felt tormented by your own mind, isolated in shame, or exhausted from doing all the "right Christian things" with no relief... this one's for you.

Your intrusive thoughts are not who you are. They're not sin. And they don't disqualify you from God's nearness.

Resources mentioned: Exposure and Response Prevention (ERP) therapy for OCD

If you're struggling with intrusive thoughts or OCD, please reach out to a licensed mental health professional who specializes in OCD treatment. You don't have to walk this alone.

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