E431 INNER VOICE – A Heartfelt Chat with Dr. Foojan In this powerful and emotional episode, Dr. Foojan Zane sits down with Pamela Henry, author of Soul Custody: Sparing Children from Divorce, to explore the truths no one tells parents about divorce, its lifelong impact on children, the hidden wounds that follow families for years, and the spiritual and emotional awakening that emerged from Pamela’s own regrets. Pamela opens up about her experience as a supervised visitation expert, a mother, and a woman healing from childhood trauma and a painful divorce. Together, they uncover the deep psychological, emotional, and spiritual layers behind escapist marriages, generational trauma, co-parenting mistakes, spiritual awakening, and accountability after divorce. Whether you’re navigating marriage, divorce, parenting, or emotional healing, this episode offers raw insight, compassion, and profound guidance for anyone seeking truth, clarity, and hope. ⏱️ CLICKABLE TIMESTAMPS (Curated from the Transcript) 00:00 – Welcome to Inner Voice with Dr. Foojan 00:39 – Introducing Pamela Henry & Soul Custody 02:10 – How Pamela’s divorce sparked her book 05:14 – Staying “for the kids” vs. creating a toxic home 08:45 – Emotional affairs, escapist marriage & hidden pain 11:58 – Divorce regret & how it impacts children long-term 14:42 – Supervised visitation: what children really experience 17:15 – Anxiety, sadness & the emotional cost of back-and-forth custody 20:22 – Childhood trauma research & Judith Wallerstein’s findings 22:40 – Faith, spiritual awakening & turning to God through pain 26:02 – Infidelity, accountability & the absence of spiritual grounding 29:13 – The role of friends: learning marriage vs. learning divorce 31:20 – Why parents overlook the child’s emotional attachment to BOTH parents 34:05 – Toxic divorce cases Pamela witnessed in visitation work 36:30 – The universal emotional impact on children—no matter the severity 38:10 – How regret transformed into healing & the writing of Soul Custody 40:12 – Can rushed divorces be avoided? Instagram illusions of “better lives” 42:20 – Childhood wounds married into adult relationships 44:00 – Forgiveness from her daughters & ex-husband 45:25 – Realizing she expected her spouse to do what only God or inner work could 47:08 – Faith, self-accountability & healing without religion 48:10 – Advice to parents: Examine your past before choosing divorce 49:20 – Where to find Pamela Henry & SoulCustody.com 49:55 – Closing message from Dr. Foojan 💬 EPISODE SUMMARY – In this intimate and deeply revealing conversation, Dr. Foojan and Pamela Henry dive into the emotional and spiritual realities of divorce that most parents only recognize too late. Pamela shares her painful journey—from childhood abuse and emotional wounds to infidelity, escapist marriage, and the grief of realizing her divorce caused emotional harm to her children. They explore how divorce affects kids regardless of age or circumstance, including anxiety, sadness, divided loyalty, time loss, and the burden of going back and forth between homes. Drawing on her work in supervised visitation, Pamela explains how even in dangerous or toxic marriages, children still grieve the absence of a parent and carry long-term emotional scars. Dr. Foojan expands the conversation to include both spiritual healing and psychological self-examination, highlighting how unhealed trauma, unmet expectations, and lack of accountability often drive couples to divorce instead of growth. They discuss how surrounding yourself with the right role models—those who repaired their marriages, not just those who left—shapes the path you take. Pamela describes her spiritual awakening during divorce, realizing she never brought God—or any form of higher accountability—into her marriage. She shares how writing Soul Custody allowed her to heal, reconnect with her daughters, and even receive unexpected forgiveness from her ex-husband. This episode is a powerful guide for anyone facing marital struggles, healing childhood wounds, or seeking to spare their children from avoidable trauma. It is filled with truth, vulnerability, and the wisdom gained from looking deeply within. 🔖 HASHTAGS & KEYWORDS #DivorceHealing #CoParenting #SoulCustody #PamelaHenry #DrFoojan #InnerVoicePodcast #ChildhoodTrauma #SupervisedVisitation #MarriageAdvice #FaithAndHealing #ParentingThroughDivorce #EmotionalHealing #FamilyTherapy #AwarenessIntegration #DivorceRegret

Welcome to E430 Inner Voice, where Dr. Foojan sits down for a heartfelt and inspiring conversation with Dr. Laura Gabayan—a world-renowned physician, researcher, and Psychology Today contributor. In this powerful episode, Dr. Laura shares the insights behind her groundbreaking Wisdom Research Project, where she interviewed 60 wise adults across North America to uncover the 8 scientific elements of wisdom. These discoveries are featured in her transformative book and journal, Common Wisdom: 8 Scientific Elements of a Meaningful Life and the Common Wisdom Journal. Learn more and take the Wisdom IQ Test at lauragabayan.com. ⭐ Dr. Laura Gabayan’s Journey into Wisdom Science Dr. Laura, an emergency medicine physician and respected researcher, opens up about her personal journey from academic medicine to becoming a pioneering voice in wisdom science. She speaks candidly about her struggle with chronic Lyme disease and the limitations she encountered within Western medicine—challenges that ultimately inspired her to explore deeper truths about meaning, resilience, and human experience. This quest led her to interview 60 wise adults and publish her influential book, Common Wisdom: 8 Scientific Elements of the Meaningful Life. ⭐ Elements of Wisdom Research Dr. Laura breaks down the eight core elements of wisdom—highlighting essential qualities such as resilience, kindness, and positivity. Through vulnerable personal stories of losing her home, battling chronic illness, and rebuilding her life, she illustrates how resilience strengthens our emotional core. Together, Dr. Laura and Dr. Foojan explore the transformative power of self-kindness, compassion for others, and the ability to maintain positivity in the face of adversity. These interconnected wisdom elements help individuals navigate challenges with clarity, courage, and hope. ⭐ Understanding Spirituality Beyond Religiosity Dr. Laura offers meaningful insights into spirituality, describing it as a deeply personal experience that goes beyond traditional religiosity. Coming from a scientific background, writing about spirituality challenged her—but ultimately helped her understand its role in connection, healing, intuition, and making sense of experiences that science cannot fully explain. Dr. Foojan highlights how spirituality aligns with curiosity, openness, and inner exploration, allowing us to expand our awareness and sense of meaning. ⭐ Foundations of Growth and Harmony This insightful conversation also explores curiosity, humility, tolerance, and creativity as essential foundations of personal growth and social harmony. Dr. Laura and Dr. Foojan discuss how humility fosters deeper connection, how tolerance helps us overcome biases, and how creativity exists in every person—even if expressed in different ways. They envision a world where diversity is not merely tolerated but honored and celebrated with genuine appreciation. ⭐ Common Wisdom Journal Overview Dr. Laura introduces the Common Wisdom Journal, designed to guide readers through moral reflection questions and chapter summaries that enhance understanding of each wisdom element. While the journal offers prompts and structure, the book provides deeper scientific exploration of the eight elements that shape a meaningful life. Dr. Laura encourages viewers to take her Wisdom IQ Test at lauragabayan.com before diving into the journal or book to better understand their personal strengths and areas for growth. Dr. Foojan welcomes listeners to share their insights, feedback, and questions as they engage with Dr. Laura’s work. ⭐ Hashtags #The8SecretsofaMeaningfulLife #DrLauraGabayan #WisdomResearch #InnerVoicePodcast #Resilience #Spirituality #Kindness #PersonalGrowth #SelfDevelopment #PsychologyToday #WisdomScience #MentalHealth #ChronicLymeDisease #Positivity #EmotionalHealing #HumanConnection #SelfReflection #MeaningfulLife#mentalhealth #Wellness #Relationship #personalgrowth #Self-Development

✨ E429 – INNER VOICE: A Heartfelt Chat with Dr. Foojan & Dr. Gina Chiriac | Integrative Psychotherapy, Neuroscience & Healing Join Dr. Foojan Zeine in this deeply inspiring and emotionally rich conversation with Dr. Gina Chiriac (Gina Kiriak)—a leading European psychologist, integrative psychotherapist, researcher, and founder of Romania’s first accredited Integrative Psychotherapy Training Institute. In this episode, we explore psychotherapy, trauma healing, hypnosis, neuroscience, brain mapping, meditation, emotional regulation, early childhood development, and the future of mental health. 🔹 About Our Guest – Dr. Gina Chiriac Dr. Chiriac is the founder and president of: ARPI – Romanian Association of Integrative Psychotherapy IESTCA – European Institute for Therapy of Children & Adolescents Neuropsy Institute – Center for Neurofeedback, QEEG Brain Mapping, HeartMath & Clinical Innovation With: 2,500+ workshops delivered 150,000+ participants 50,000+ clinical hours Author & international trainer Her work has transformed psychotherapy in Romania and expanded across Europe. Website: https://psihoterapieintegrativa.ro ⏱️ Clickable Timestamps 00:00 – Intro 00:14 – The inner voice and the transformation of mind & brain 01:00 – Brain as a record of the past & a map for the future 02:06 – New AI-driven Foojan App features 02:37 – Meet Dr. Gina Chiriac 07:05 – How psychotherapy began in Romania after decades of being banned 08:50 – Creating the first Integrative Psychotherapy School in Romania 10:05 – How inner work transforms culture and society 13:42 – What is Integrative Psychotherapy? Holistic mind-body-spirit approach 16:02 – Gina’s journey into hypnosis & Ericksonian methods 17:58 – How hypnosis changes brainwaves and neurochemistry 20:02 – Foojan’s powerful hypnosis case: Pain-free dental surgery 22:10 – Measuring healing: QEEG, neurofeedback & brain mapping 23:58 – Seeing transformation on the brain map 25:12 – Psychotherapy certification across Europe 27:52 – Early childhood programming & unconscious mind (0–7 years old) 28:55 – Training psychotherapists for children & adolescents 30:00 – Growth of modern psychotherapy in Romania 33:04 – Visionary leadership & international collaboration 35:32 – Gina’s next chapter: Neuroscience, meditation & the present moment 37:14 – Beyond psychotherapy: Consciousness, presence & the quantum field 40:48 – The future of psychotherapy: Vibrational healing & relational neuroscience 42:07 – Measuring the spiritual experience with science 43:26 – Closing message: Awareness, chemistry & creating a beautiful life 🔹 Key Topics Covered in This Episode 🇷🇴 Psychotherapy Revolution in Romania How psychotherapy was banned for 50 years Rebuilding an entire mental health system Training 2,000+ psychotherapists & expanding across Europe 🧠 Integrative Psychotherapy & Holistic Healing Integrating mind, body, emotions, spirit & culture Relational integrative psychotherapy Working with unconscious patterns formed before age seven 🌀 Hypnosis & Ericksonian Techniques Accessing the unconscious mind Creating rapid behavioral and emotional transformation Real case studies (including pain-free dental surgery using hypnosis) 🔬 Neuroscience, Brain Mapping & Meditation Using QEEG, neurofeedback, and HeartMath in therapy Measuring emotional regulation in real time Brain changes before and after meditation & processing How relationship dynamics change brain function 🌱 Early Childhood Development & Trauma Healing Theta brainwave states in early childhood How native-language therapy rewrites early programming Training therapists for children and adolescents 🌌 The Future of Psychotherapy Integrating neuroscience and spirituality Studying relational space and energetic fields Creating healing through presence, love & expanded awareness 🌟 About Dr. Foojan Zeine Psychotherapist, author, and creator of Awareness Integration Theory, designed to reduce depression and anxiety, increase self-esteem, and expand productivity and fulfillment. Learn more: FujanZaine.com Download the Fujan App featuring “Meera” – the AI trained in Awareness Integration. 💬 If this episode inspired you… ✔️ Like ✔️ Subscribe ✔️ Share with someone who needs this conversation. Create an amazing life for yourself and everyone around you. See you in the next episode!