In The Shadows (S7 Ep.7)
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In The Shadows (S7 Ep.7)
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The narcissistic parent hands their child a mirror.
The child job is to hold it up and reflect back whatever the parent needs to see.
Beside it, the parent paints a canvas and says: this is you. Selfish. Difficult. Ungrateful. Cold. Unlovable.
None of that was ever you.
In this episode, I pull apart what it means to grow up invisible. Behind the mirror and behind that ugly painted canvas, there's a blank one.
It isn't blank because there's nothing there. It's blank because you were never allowed to find out.
I explore why:
You don't know what you actually feel, only what's "allowed"
You mistake self-erasure for being "easygoing" or "low-maintenance"
You confuse being needed with being loved
You can't trust what happened until someone else confirms it.
You get to exist. Not for anyone else's benefit. For yours.
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