What does real friendship look like in marriage? In this episode of Imperfectly Married, Michael and Heather unpack how each of the nine Enneagram types builds, strains, and restores friendship within marriage.

From the Type 1 perfectionist learning to relax, to the Type 7 enthusiast slowing down, to the Type 9 peacemaker finding their voice—every couple will see themselves somewhere in this conversation.

You’ll learn how each Enneagram type loves, connects, and communicates, the biggest friendship challenges for every type, and simple ways to bring more laughter, grace, and presence into your marriage. They also share why friendship—not just romance—is what keeps you choosing each other, and how faith and self-awareness work together to bring healing and depth.

Whether you’re new to the Enneagram or already know your number, this episode will help you grow closer, communicate better, and rediscover joy in your marriage friendship.

Subscribe for more Imperfectly Married episodes and share this one with your spouse or a couple who loves learning together. Because no marriage is perfect—but yours is worth fighting for.

What if the secret to a lasting, joy-filled marriage isn’tjust love—but friendship?

In this episode of Imperfectly Married, Michael andHeather open up about how their 26-year relationship has been built (and rebuilt) on laughter, curiosity, and connection. From navigating conflict with grace to rediscovering what it means to like your spouse—not just love them—this conversation will remind you why every healthy marriage starts with friendship.

They share real stories, practical tips, and honest momentsabout keeping friendship alive through the chaos of kids, work, and everyday life. Whether you’re newly married or decades in, this one’s for you.

In this episode:

Why friendship is the foundation of every strongmarriage

How to rebuild connection when life feels routine

Ways to laugh, play, and stay curious together

The power of humility and apology in friendship

What does your favorite reality TV show say about your personality and your marriage?

In this fun and eye-opening episode of Imperfectly Married, Michael and Heather Brown break down how each Enneagram type (1–9) engages with reality TV — and how it reveals what we value, fear, and need in our relationships.

From the rule-following Type 1s who yell at the TV whenthings aren’t “fair” to the adventure-loving Type 7s who just want one more episode, every personality type finds something different in the drama.

In this episode:What each Enneagram type notices (and why) while watching reality TVHow your type’s core fear and desire shape what you enjoyWhat these viewing habits reveal about how you connect with your spouseWhy the Enneagram helps you understand both entertainment and each other

Whether you’re watching Love Is Blind, Survivor,or Hell’s Kitchen, this conversation will help you laugh, learn, and see your marriage in a whole new way.

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