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Today we’re asking a question so many parents think about… but don’t always say out loud:

Are we raising soft kids?

It’s one of those uncomfortable, honest conversations that hits a little too close to home. Have we made life too easy for our kids? Did we overcorrect from how we were raised? And what does that actually mean for them as they grow up and face the real world?

We’re getting into all of it:

• The difference between giving our kids a good life vs. creating entitlement
• How our childhoods shaped us—and how that’s showing up in our parenting
• Moments that made us stop and rethink what we’re doing
• How to teach resilience, gratitude, and independence (even when they’ve never gone without)

This isn’t about blaming ourselves or pretending we have it all figured out. It’s about being honest, reflecting, and realizing that it’s okay to adjust as we go.

If you’ve ever wondered if you’re doing too much… or not enough… this conversation will hit home.

Because caring enough to ask the hard questions? That’s exactly what makes you a good parent. 💛

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Today we’re diving into the questions so many moms have… but are too embarrassed to ask out loud.

You know the ones—the late-night Google searches, the “is this normal?” spirals, the things that feel too awkward or too vulnerable to bring up at your OB appointment.

We’re covering it all:

• Pooping during labor (yes, we’re going there)
• Tearing during birth—how bad is it really?
• Postpartum bleeding and what actually happens after delivery
• The physical and emotional reality of your postpartum body

This episode is honest, reassuring, and a reminder that you are never the only one wondering these things.

If you’ve ever felt unsure, overwhelmed, or just plain curious about what’s coming—this conversation is for you.

Because asking the questions? That’s what makes you a great mom already. 💛

Keep up with us on social media!
Instagram - @cadenlane
TikTok - @cadenlanebaby
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imthatmom.com

And our store:
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One minute they're your sweet, honest little baby, and the next they're looking you straight in the face insisting they didn't do the thing you know they did. Katy sits down with DD to talk about why kids lie, what it actually means developmentally, and how we respond without damaging the trust we've worked so hard to build.

Keep up with us on social media!
Instagram - @cadenlane
TikTok - @cadenlanebaby
Facebook - @cadenlane

Check out our mom blog:
imthatmom.com

And our store:
CadenLane.com