In this episode, we're celebrating Violet's fourth birthday by capturing exactly who she is at this stage of life—from her big personality and even bigger imagination to the little quirks and sayings we never want to forget. We sit down with each of her siblings to hear how they would describe her, what they love about her, and the funny stories that come to mind when they think about their baby sister. Their answers range from sweet to brutally honest and give a pretty accurate picture of life with the youngest kid in the family.

We also talk about what it's been like watching Violet grow from a laid-back fourth baby into a sassy, sweet, stubborn, funny, and fiercely independent four-year-old. From her obsession with big cats and princesses to working on her poses in the mirror, aggressively loving us, making up elaborate stories with her toys, and insisting on doing things her own way, Violet has made it very clear that she's going to be exactly who she wants to be. We share some of our favorite Violet-isms, what she loves right now, and the bittersweet realization that so many of those last baby and toddler milestones are already disappearing.

Finally, we talk about Violet's unique relationship with each of her siblings and what it's been like watching her find her place as the youngest of four. We share the everyday moments we hope we remember years from now—from zoo and library trips to sibling hugs, pretend doctor visits, "Mama Tiger," "Hee-Hee," and all the other little things that make Violet who she is at four. Most of all, this episode is a time capsule for her: a reminder that she completed our family, has been deeply loved from day one, and that we hope she holds onto that sass and determination as she grows...even if we'd appreciate her going a little easier on us.

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