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Who's Carrying The Load? (Part 6 of 10) 10 Things That Can Make or Break Your Marriage

Who's Carrying The Load? (Part 6 of 10) 10 Things That Can Make or Break Your Marriage

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Nothing kills affection quite like feeling like you're carrying the entire marriage by yourself.

It's not about "husbands do this, and wives do that." And the question isn't whether everything is exactly 50/50. The realy question is whether both spouses believe the marriage is being carried by BOTH of them.

In part 6 of our 10 part series, we discuss more than just the "division of labor" in our homes. We discuss the importance of being seen, noticed, appreciated, and truly valued as a team mate, a partner in the marriage who making valuable contributions to the health of the family. We talk about how many wives feel they carry the emotional/mental load in the home, and what husbands can do to lighten that burden.

When it comes to housework, kids, scheduling, cooking, yard work, household maintenance, finances - who is doing the lion's share, are both spouses pulling their weight, and most importantly, are we noticing our spouse's efforts, and are we verbalizing our appreciation. It can go a long way!!

Our challenge this week:

List what you notice your partner doing, what you feel your partner doesn't notice you doing, and things that you feel your partner does appreciate you doing. Trade lists - no defense, no judgement. See what honest conversation around this can produce in your marriage. If you need a reset in this area, let this be a start.

Bonus challenge - Notice what happens when you are thankful for your spouse in specific areas, and actually express that to them this week!


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