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You were ready to be done. Then you had a good weekend.

Now you’re wondering if things were really that bad. You’re laughing again, he’s affectionate, and the conversation you needed to have suddenly feels like something that can wait.

I know that feeling. I also know how long it kept me staying.

In this solo episode of Hold My Purse, I’m getting honest about wanting love so much that I started negotiating with myself about things I knew mattered to me. We’re talking about swallowing hurt to avoid an argument, calling it “taking it slow” when you’re actually waiting for commitment, and letting good moments stand in for real change.

I’m sharing the question I started asking after those good weekends, when I was most tempted to explain everything away.

If you keep thinking, “But when it’s good, it’s so good,” come sit with me.

And Aria joins us with a little fall fun, sharing her pumpkin patch visit and her love for squishies.

Your journal prompt: What am I asking myself to live with in order to keep this relationship?

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