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A draft notice, a quick marriage, and a flight to Vietnam with people he’d never met. Donald Behm walks us through what it feels like to land in-country alone, step into combat within days, and learn the unwritten rule that trust is earned under fire. He remembers the terrain and tempo vividly: hill assaults near Huế, patrols that blur together, mortar harassment, and a lightning strike so close it burned his leg and nearly set off the electrical blasting caps he was carrying.

We also dig into the mechanics of survival that rarely make it into the movies. Donald explains why the radio operator is a target, how calling medevacs and talking on battalion nets adds pressure to 20-year-old’s decisions, and what it was like moving from mountains to swamps, the Saigon rocket belt, and the Cu Chi tunnel network. If you’re searching for real stories of Vietnam combat, infantry life, tunnel operations, or how units actually moved and communicated, his details are the kind that stick.

The hard part doesn’t end with the flight home. Donald describes the shock of returning to normal life in days, the anger and hypervigilance that spill out in everyday moments, and the years of job changes, drinking, and trying to bury the past. When everything finally breaks in 1998, a VA doctor gives him the word PTSD and that label becomes a turning point, not an excuse. From there, he channels experience into service, helping spark peer-based support for returning National Guard troops and pushing forward the veteran's court model that connects judges, mentors, and VA care.

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