You know your marriage isn’t working.

Maybe there’s been repeated infidelity. Addiction. Years of disrespect. An unequal partnership. Broken trust. Or maybe you’ve carried the financial, emotional, and practical weight of the marriage for so long that you’re completely exhausted.

You can see the problems clearly.

You may even think, I know I should leave.

So why can’t you?

In this episode of The Divorce Decision Podcast, I’m talking about a very specific kind of stuck: when part of you believes leaving makes sense, but you still can’t bring yourself to make the decision.

And that doesn’t necessarily mean you’re confused about your marriage.

Sometimes you’re very clear about what’s wrong—you’re just not clear yet about what you want to do about it.

I talk about the important difference between clarity about the problem and clarity about the decision, and why those two things don’t always arrive at the same time.

I also explore why your head and your heart can seem to be giving you completely different answers.

You can know someone has hurt you and still love them.

You can recognize that the marriage cannot continue as it is and still not feel ready to let go.

If you’ve been judging yourself because you think this decision “should” be easier, I hope this episode helps you understand why it may feel so complicated.

If you’re caught in this back-and-forth, start by taking my Should We Get a Divorce? Quiz to better understand where you are in the decision-making process.

Should We Get A Divorce Quiz: https://kari-hoskins-coaching-llc.kit.com/9e533cdd68

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