This week we go over our 2025 ins and outs list.

In: country club activities, tasers, and polycules

Out: hills, run clubs, and meetings before 9am

We also share our experience plugging in our metaphorical avatar hair with the tree of life when exploring the mystical world of plant medicines (think oiud, magic mushrooms, and mother Aya),

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This week we’re giving you a very special bonus episode because we can't stop thinking about the art of dating. We dive into some of our best and worst first dates and share those little details that make the difference.

Remember kids - dating should be fun, splitting the bill at a boujee restaurant is not hot, and the post-date text is more important than you think.

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This week we’re coming to you live from ✨technical difficulties✨ - Taylor sounds like she’s recording from the bottom of the ocean, which is exactly when we realize… we need a tech guy. Cue: JAMES, where are you??

We may be glitchy, but we’re consistent and we’re back on Zoom like a long distance situationship.

Zoe kicks things off with a recap of her Mexico bachelorette trip: think G.I. Jane energy, cenotes, unsolicited piggyback rides, foot massages from strangers, and quite possibly the best club of her life.

Then Taylor drops a bomb: she’s leaving San Francisco. Yes, we’re unwell. It’s giving breakup and emotional damage. But also growth, new chapters, and a soft launch into whatever’s next!

Then it’s Coachella, GLP-1 conspiracies, and a dive into the latest internet drama, because why is everything so messy right now??

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This week we enter our crafty but chaotic era: leather goods, crocheting, and keeping our hands busy so we stay out of trouble.

We romanticize the Amtrak like it’s a European summer, misidentify an antique Japanese hairpin with a tiny spoon on the end (it’s an ear pick, btw), and spiral through vintage shopping, parasites, wearing heels for no reason, big brain ambitions, and our sudden urge to become bilingual baddies.

Also, Zoe blacks out at a dive bar with her family and gets hit on by men her brothers’ age.

At our core, we’re completely different people with identical energy: curious, chaotic, and deeply committed to the bit.

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Taylor enters her redhead era with bangs and a full alter ego—Morgan Renee—because nothing says “I’m stable” like feeling like a spy in your own life.

Zoe, on the other hand, is fighting for her life (mentally) as we unpack hypochondria, intrusive thoughts, and the fine line between intuition and full-blown delusion. It’s giving therapy, but like… unlicensed and highly unqualified.

Then it’s a full debrief of our unwell weekend in SF—running into past situationships (nightmare), staying out until 5am (concerning), and casually handing out our numbers like business cards.

We also discuss a controversial truth: in San Francisco you’re either a 10/10 or dressed like you lost a bet… there is no middle ground. And while not everyone is born beautiful, everyone can be hot, it’s called effort, babe.

Stay hot, stay single.

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We’re back in the USA and back in our old neighborhood—promenading around the marina in fur coats and getting plenty of double takes. After months abroad, we’ve landed just in time for a weekend packed with baby showers, 33rd birthdays, tea parties, party buses, and everything in between. Our friends are all in different stages of life, and we’re just along for the ride.

Taylor recaps her Costa Rica rendezvous (think groomsmen drama, body shots with boat captains, and lots of friend time), while Zoe heads home to see family and recreates an iconic Wuthering Heights–style moment that deserves a spot on everyone’s bucket list.

Anyways, we’re SO back and some might even say better than ever! See you next week xx

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It’s our last night in Asia and we’re not handling it well. After four months of sharing a bed, a bank account, stomach problems, and an alarming number of 7-11 runs, we’ve realized we’re basically platonically married. We talk cheaters, why men are never nicer than when they’re trying to hook up, and why a boyfriend only sounds useful when we’re carrying heavy bags or something in the car starts blinking.

Taylor says she’s swearing off dating for a year (we’ll circle back) and Zoe wants her forever person but is currently committed to herself. We get into healthy masculine energy, gender roles (we’re not buying drinks with $200 nails), and what we’re actually excited to go home to: closets, home-cooked meals, our people, and a sunset smoke sesh. Asia changed us. The 7-11 shaped us.

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We’re back and have absolutely seen better days. Taylor is relentlessly sassy, Zoe is relentlessly horny, and we’re once again asking: where do you find a shadow daddy in real life and why is everyone a performative nice guy??

Heated Rivalry, Rhysand, and other fictional men have us spiraling into our 14-year-old selves, obsessing over boys we’ve never met but are spiritually convinced will one day be in our orbit.

Less than 5 hours after landing in Vietnam we’re locking lips with Kiwis, and doing our civic duty to address the male loneliness epidemic. Turns out it has nothing to do with women and everything to do with their own antics… but we digress. We’re officially bringing back kissing for fun in 2026—friends, threesomes, boys, girls, whoever.

Then it’s four life-changing days on the back of motorcycles in Ha Giang—and honestly, nothing has been the same since.

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