“Honor your father and mother.”

For some men, that verse feels holy. For others, it feels heavy.

What if the Hebrew word for honor doesn’t mean lifelong obedience—but giving proper weight?

In this episode, we unpack: • The Hebrew meaning of kā·vêd • Why honor is about posture, not control • How this commandment has been misused • And how to honor without losing your identity

If you’ve ever felt trapped between family expectations and God’s calling—this one is for you.

Pressure isn’t just about circumstances — it’s about identity.

In this episode of I Know a Guy, we talk about the quiet drift that moves men from sonship into striving… and how to become immovable again.

If you’ve been exhausted from trying to hold your place, this conversation will steady you.

And if you’d like help becoming anchored and unwavering in your identity, I offer 1:1 identity coaching for men ready to stop drifting..

Contact me at: steve.cummings@bringingkingdom.org or schedule an appointment at: https://bringingkingdom.org/talk

"I Am Your Beloved" Written by Jonathan David Helser and Brandon Lake. Performed by Jonathan and Melissa Helser. ℗ & © 2022 Bethel Music. All Rights Reserved. Used by Permission.

Most men think unwavering means trying harder.

It doesn’t.

It means being seated.

In this episode of I Know a Guy, we unpack what “steadfast” and “immovable” really mean — and why pressure isn’t trying to break you… it’s trying to relocate you.

If you’ve been feeling shaken in your identity, this conversation is for you.

And if you’d like help learning how to live seated — not striving — I offer 1:1 identity coaching for men who want to become grounded and unmovable in who they are.

You can reach me at: steve.cummings@bringingkingdom.org