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One survivor answered a question about trafficking prevention with a sentence that stopped us cold: “I wanted to see my dad love my mom.” That one line pulls the curtain back on something most people miss. Human trafficking is not only a law enforcement problem or an internet problem, but it is also a fatherhood problem, an identity problem, and a family stability problem.

We sit down with Patrick Erlanson, whose journey from early faith to deep disillusionment led him to explore other worldviews before an encounter with Jesus changed the course of his life. His work with UNHCR (United Nations High Commissioner for Refugees) and later with trafficking prevention exposed him to the brutal mechanics of exploitation and the way predators target kids who feel unseen, unprotected, or unsure of who they are.

From there, we shift to solutions that start at home. We unpack what makes a father trustworthy, why kids need consistency more than perfection, and how practicing repair through real forgiveness can heal a family. We also explore identity and adoption as a gospel anchor: being chosen, named, and made an heir, which strengthens children against counterfeit identities offered by traffickers and a confused culture.

If you care about Christian fatherhood, strong marriages, protecting children, and rebuilding family leadership, this conversation is for you. Subscribe, share this with a dad who needs it, and leave a review with the one takeaway you’re bringing home.

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