After three weeks going deeper than I ever expected on MLS policy, private listings, and the housing market the public deserves, it's time to come up for air. Today's post is about AI — and I don't blame you if you groan. I'm feeling the fatigue too. But there's a version of this conversation almost nobody's having, and it's the honest one.

Here's the sunshine: for the past year I've treated ChatGPT and Claude as sparring partners, not ghostwriters. I don't ask them to do my thinking — I ask them to argue against it, hard. I'd rather find out I'm wrong at 10 p.m. with an AI than in a comment section the next morning. On the building side, I rebuilt my entire real estate website in two days with Claude Code, and spun up tools — an HOA/CC&R risk analyzer, localized community pages, a Reddit monitor — that didn't exist six months ago. I still can't write a line of code.

And here are the dark clouds. AI hasn't helped me work less — I work more. When the only constraint on building something is your own imagination, the bottleneck is you. It's a jet engine bolted to a Honda Civic. There's a new kind of mental fog, a low-grade FOMO, and a widening gap between efficiency (exploded) and effectiveness (not so much). Friction used to be a filter; AI removed it, so now I go deep on everything and fail faster than ever.

There's no tidy conclusion here, and I'm not going to pretend the answer is "balance." What I'll say is that a lot of people are quietly feeling some version of this, and the dominant "AI will save us / destroy us" narrative leaves no room for "it's making me better and also making me a little crazy." That's the conversation I think we need — asking not just what you're using AI to build, but what it's doing to your sanity.

Originally published on Realtor Gone Rogue, April 10, 2026.

CHAPTERS

0:00 Coming up for air

0:39 Yes, it's an AI post

1:13 My Real Estate AI Flash episode with Rajeev

2:15 The sunshine: AI as a sparring partner

2:56 Arguing, not outsourcing

3:18 Making it argue the other side

4:07 Research partner, not homework machine

4:26 I rebuilt my website in two days

5:26 Tools I built with no code

5:56 Now the dark clouds

6:41 AI hasn't helped me work less

7:26 When the bottleneck is you

8:04 A jet engine on a Honda Civic

8:22 The new mental fog

9:08 Low-grade anxiety and AI FOMO

9:49 How do you build a moat?

10:07 Efficiency vs. effectiveness

10:39 Building things I'll never use

10:59 Friction used to be a filter

11:38 Failing faster

11:59 No tidy conclusion

12:37 The conversation we should be having

12:55 Protect your first brain

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My Real Estate AI Flash episode with Rajeev Sajja (EP 116: How Smart Agents Use AI as a Second Brain) → https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5vhVW-HU9CQ

The website I built with Claude Code → https://thetartanteam.com

Follow Nick on LinkedIn → https://linkedin.com/in/nickaufenkamp

Nick is a practicing broker leading The Tartan Team in SW Washington. His work on real estate incentives and reform has been featured in The New York Times, The Wall Street Journal, HousingWire, and Real Estate News.

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