What if your trauma could become your superpower in parenting?

In this powerful conversation, I sit down with Dr. Robyn Koslowitz, clinical child psychologist and author of Post-Traumatic Parenting: Break the Cycle, Become the Parent You Always Wanted to Be. We explore how childhood trauma shapes the way we show up as parents—and how the very act of raising children can be our path to healing.

We discuss:

• The difference between the trauma of presence and the trauma of absence
• Why conflict isn’t the problem in families—mismanaged conflict is
• How to “reprogram” the trauma app in your brain
• The power of repair and modeling healthy conflict for your children
• Why parenting is the perfect moment for rewiring and growth

If you’ve ever worried that your “damage will damage your kids,” this episode offers hope, compassion, and practical tools to shift that fear into strength.

🔗 Resources & Links:

• Post-Traumatic Parenting by Dr. Robyn Koslowitz (Amazon)
• Follow Dr. Koslowitz on Instagram: @posttraumaticparenting
• Connect with me on Instagram: @lucindarogerskoza

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In this episode of How I Ally, I sit down with Kumiko Kanayama, founder of the longest-running Shiatsu center in the U.S., to explore the healing wisdom of her family tradition.

We talk about:

• How Shiatsu goes beyond massage to work with energy channels and meridians
• Simple practices that ease pain, improve digestion, and bring emotional clarity
• The transformative journey of motherhood—from exhaustion to deep connection
• Why rest, presence, and small daily rituals are essential for healing

Kumiko’s story is a reminder that healing is not just physical—it’s emotional, cultural, and communal. Whether you’re a parent, caregiver, or simply seeking balance, her insights will leave you inspired.

👉 Tune in now, and don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and review so more listeners can discover these powerful conversations.

It’s time to say it out loud—vagina—and stop the shame. Lucinda Koza talks with Saundra Pelletier, CEO of Evofem Biosciences, about why accurate language saves lives, the first non-hormonal, on-demand birth control, and how to raise informed, empowered daughters and sons. Plus—the surprising link between weight-loss drugs and birth control.

Listen, learn, and join the movement to reclaim women’s health and equality.