How do you know when you've actually found your person?

And once you have... how do you keep choosing them?

In Episode 8 of Love, Lies & The Truth, what begins as a conversation about flirting, attraction and the slow creep of complacency in long-term relationships turns into something much bigger.

Why do couples who once couldn't keep their hands off each other eventually start feeling like roommates? What happens when the little gestures, attention and curiosity slowly disappear? And if the love is still there... can you create something new together?

We also explore what it actually means to “know” someone is your person, the difference between chemistry and consistent behaviour, and why being honest about what you see may matter more than simply trusting how you feel. Amy reflects on the doubts and red flags she ignored in past relationships, and what feels fundamentally different now.

And, in true Love, Lies & The Truth fashion, the conversation takes an unexpected turn into purpose, identity, service and shared mission... and whether having something meaningful to move toward together might be one of the things that keeps two people growing instead of simply growing comfortable.

Maybe keeping the spark alive isn't about trying to recreate who you were when you first met.

Maybe it's about continuing to notice, discover and choose the person beside you as both of you change.

Quick note:

Yes... there’s a little Muncho crunching in this episode. 😂 We know it may be distracting (or even come across as a little disrespectful while Jonathan is talking), and Amy started muting her mic once she realized it. It’s brief, it’s handled... and the conversation gets especially good from there. Consider it another lesson learned in the ongoing adventure of making this podcast together. 😄 Thanks for listening!

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