🔥 HOT TAKE: Sometimes the fastest way to lose an ARC reader... is by asking them to hurry.

Before anyone grabs their pitchforks—this isn't aimed at every author. Most authors are incredible, kind, and understand that book reviewers are juggling real life, families, jobs, and an ever-growing TBR.

But let's talk about the messages.

You know the ones...

"Just checking in!"
"Did you see my last message?"
"Can you post my spotlight today?"
"Have you started reading yet?"

...even after you've already said you'll get back to them in a few days.

As readers and reviewers, we want to support authors. We volunteer our time because we love books and we love helping stories find their audience. But constant follow-up messages can turn something fun into something that feels like an obligation.

In this episode, we're talking about:
📚 Why repeated messages can overwhelm ARC readers.
💜 What healthy communication between authors and reviewers looks like.
⏳ Why patience often creates stronger, longer-lasting relationships.
🎙️ And how both authors and readers can work together without burning each other out.

This isn't about calling anyone out—it's about having an honest conversation that can make the indie book community healthier for everyone.

Now I want to hear from you...

👀 Readers: Have you ever felt pressured by constant follow-ups?
✍️ Authors: How do you balance promoting your book while respecting reviewers' time?

Let's have a respectful conversation—because supporting each other shouldn't come at the cost of our peace.