This week we’re exploring the dark masculine a side of the masculine that most of us have never been shown, yet is essential for true intimacy, polarity, and healing.

I sat down with Adeyemi, a men’s coach and wisdom-keeper, whose journey has taken him from Nigeria to Germany, through deep struggles, plant medicine work, and ultimately into his mission of helping men reclaim their power. In our conversation, we opened up about shame, sexuality, and what it really takes for men to hold both their light and their shadow without rejecting any part of themselves.

Together, we explored:

💔 why shame is the lowest vibration and how men can release it

👥 why women can hold space, but men also need other men for their deepest healing

🌗 what the “dark masculine” really means (and why it’s not something to fear)

🔥 how to maintain polarity in relationships without falling into the “mother/teacher” role

🌹 the path to deeper intimacy, ravishment, and authentic connection

This conversation is raw, real, and an invitation to embrace all of who you are… light, dark, and everything in between.

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This one is for the spiritual girlies who’ve been feeling off lately… overwhelmed, overstimulated, and lowkey disassociated. 💭

Our nervous systems were never meant to carry this much stimulation.

Between doomscrolling TikTok, holding the emotional weight of the entire world, and trying to keep up with everyone else’s success stories on Instagram…
No wonder your body feels like it’s constantly bracing for impact. 😮‍💨

In this episode of the Highest Self Podcast, I break down why you’re feeling this way and how to finally come back to your body using my Triple E Method, the exact practice I created to heal after my divorce and release years of stored trauma.

Here’s what we explore:

✨ Why constant overstimulation leads to disassociation and anxiety
📱 How social media is hijacking your nervous system without you realizing it
😵‍💫 The real reason you're spiraling in fear, rejection, or comparison
💃🏽 What embodiment actually means (beyond movement or mindset)
🌀 My Triple E Method: Emote, Embody, Express—and how to use it
💗 How unprocessed emotions get stuck in the body and manifest as pain
🧘🏽‍♀️ What it means to be fully present in your human experience again

If you’ve been feeling disconnected, emotionally exhausted, or like you’re absorbing energy that’s not even yours… this episode is going to feel like a full-body exhale.💨

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This week’s solocast is one that might get me canceled… but you know what? it’s also one of the most important. 🌱

For so long, women have been told our purpose is to have children—and if we don’t, we’re selfish. In this episode, I share my own journey of wrestling with that question. From believing I’d “want kids someday,” to a plant medicine journey that told me I was here to be a mother, to the deeper truth I’ve come back to: right now, I don’t believe motherhood is my path.

I talk about the “good girl” conditioning so many of us carry, the reality of how marriage + motherhood impact women differently than men, and why I see more women choosing to remain child-free as an act of resistance.

This isn’t about saying one choice is better than the other—it’s about being radically honest with yourself. Your worth isn’t tied to whether or not you have kids. Your life matters. Your dharma matters. 🌹

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