Why do some people still treat you like a kid—even when you’re clearly an adult?

In this episode, I dive into a question so many young adults are asking: How do I get treated like an adult by my family, church members, and people who’ve known me forever?

Whether you’re home from college, back from a mission, living at home, newly married, or working full-time, this episode breaks down why this dynamic happens—and what you can do to shift it. Using insights from sociology, personal stories, and practical coaching tools, I explain how adulthood is defined today and why self-perception, responsibility, and presentation play a bigger role than age, marriage, or housing status.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• Why young adults are often still treated like kids
• How cultural shifts have changed the definition of adulthood
• The connection between self-image and how others respond to you
• Simple ways to show up with confidence and maturity
• Why “adulting” is something you practice—not something you wait to feel ready for
• How to build respect by treating yourself like an adult first

This episode is for young adults who feel capable but overlooked—and for anyone who wants to step into adulthood with confidence, clarity, and self-trust.

✨ Key takeaway: You don’t become an adult when others decide you are. You become one when you take full responsibility for yourself.

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Keywords: adulting, young adult podcast, being treated like an adult, early adulthood, life coaching for young adults, confidence, personal responsibility, family dynamics

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How to build genuine self-love, quiet self-criticism, and embrace growth with gratitude.

Do you struggle with being your own worst critic? You’re not alone. In this episode, I share practical tools for cultivating self-acceptance and self-appreciation—the mindset skills that help you love who you are, even while working toward who you want to become.

I talk about how comparison, self-judgment, and even blame can keep us stuck—and how learning to see yourself with honesty and compassion changes everything. You’ll also hear a powerful coaching story about a young woman learning to accept herself without guilt or judgment, plus a simple exercise you can try the next time you’re driving alone.

By the end of this episode, you’ll understand:

• 💡 The difference between self-acceptance (seeing yourself clearly) and self-appreciation (feeling grateful for who you are)
• 🧠 Why your brain naturally leans toward self-criticism—and how to redirect it
• 💬 How to stop comparing yourself and start acknowledging your strengths
• ❤️ A simple daily exercise to increase self-gratitude and build confidence
• 🌿 How to accept your current reality without giving up on growth

Whether you’re in college, launching your career, or just trying to figure out your next step, this conversation will help you shift from self-doubt to self-trust.

Because accepting yourself doesn’t mean you stop growing—it means you stop fighting who you already are.

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Episode Theme: Finding peace, purpose, and motivation as you head into a new year.

In this inspiring and relatable episode, we’re talking about what it really means to “answer the door” when your future comes knocking. As the year wraps up, it’s easy to look back and wonder if you’re on the right path—but what if your life is unfolding exactly as it should?

Through personal stories, a few laughs, and some practical reflection questions, you’ll discover:

💭 How your past choices—both intentional and accidental—have perfectly shaped where you are today

🎹 A peek into my 20-year-old self at BYU, juggling classes, roommates, and a love for piano

👴 Wisdom from my 82-year-old dad about the power of one good decision

🌱 Why imagining your future self helps you make better choices right now

🧱 How small, everyday decisions quietly build the life you’ll be grateful for later

💌 A simple, 10-minute challenge to connect with your future self

Whether you’re in college, figuring out your career, or just trying to make sense of what’s next, this episode will help you see that you’re not behind—you’re in progress. Your choices matter. Your growth matters. And your future is closer than you think.

So grab a notebook (or open your Notes app), and let’s take a few minutes to plan for a version of you who’s going to be really proud of today’s choices.

💬 Let’s Connect!

Comment below: What thought did you catch today, and what did you shift it to?

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