In this video, Michael Williams explains the third deadly stuttering mindset: comparing yourself to others. When you measure your struggles against someone else’s fluency, you feel frustrated, limited, and stuck in a cycle of self-doubt. Michael shows why this mindset is deadly and how to reframe it into the confident speaker’s mindset.
Instead of dragging stuttering around as a burden, he explains how to see it as a gift that—once unwrapped—develops empathy, builds rock-solid confidence, and equips you with the same tools that excellent speakers use. You’ll also hear real client stories of people who went from avoiding presentations to winning awards and thriving in professional opportunities.
Finally, Michael introduces the Confident Speakers Success System, a six-week program that uses modeling and his Triple A Formula—Authenticity, Authority, and Accuracy—to transform your speech and confidence so you can finally say what you want, when you want, the way you want.
⏱️ Chapters
0:00 Feeling Trapped by Speech Limitations
1:18 Review of Deadly Mindsets #1 and #2
3:51 Introducing Deadly Mindset #3: Comparing Yourself to Others
4:49 Why Comparisons Increase Frustration
5:57 Reframing Struggles as a Gift and Opportunity
6:27 Building Empathy and Character Through Challenges
7:01 Rock-Solid Confidence Through Transformation
8:40 Becoming an Excellent Speaker with Learnable Skills
10:15 Real Client Success Story: From No Presentations to Winning Awards
12:04 Unwrapping the Gift: Mindset and Speech Practice
12:54 The Confident Speakers Success System Invitation
13:20 The Triple A Formula: Authenticity, Authority, Accuracy
16:00 Why These Qualities Make People Listen
17:04 Final Invitation to Register
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