If you’re married, did you write your own vows?

Our guest in this episode, Stephanie Wise, is a therapist who provides therapy to couples. And she also works with couples in another way, to help them craft their vows before marriage. As we discuss in the episode, it’s not just about coming up with the right words. Rather, it’s about recognizing that committing to being in a couple over the long term involves learning the skills of loving.

Stephanie’s website is https://www.sageandvinecounseling.com/. Her Instagram handle is @officialstephwise.

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For the video of this episode, go to https://youtu.be/mFqHJEivHS0.

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