Welcome to another episode of Heart & Hustle! Follow us for more and let us know where you found us!!

Tati:

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• TikTok - ⁠⁠⁠@tati_thomas⁠⁠⁠

Travis:

• IG - ⁠⁠⁠@timefortravis⁠⁠⁠

• TikTok - ⁠⁠⁠@thejuicebeloose⁠⁠⁠

YouTube: ⁠⁠⁠LINK⁠

🔑 Key Takeaways For Listeners

✅ Respect people’s time—especially for plans you initiated

✅ Save anger for what truly warrants it; stop recruiting cosigners

✅ Refuse to “play small” to fit in; be fully you

✅ Carry a power brick; manage “tabs” in your life and phone

✅ Before venting, ask: “Do you want solutions or space?”

✅ Own your triggers without making them everyone’s problem

✅ Build a leaving-the-house routine that works for your household

✅ Only take advice from people living the results

✅ Service mindset: inform, don’t surprise (in restaurants and in life)

In this episode if Heart & Hustle we talk about... PET PEEVES!!!

After noting the milestone of cruising beyond 10 episodes, Tati and Travis frame a playful, but honest, look at the everyday behaviors that quietly drain time, energy, and respect in relationships and life.

Travis opens with a heater: being late to the plans you set. For him, punctuality isn’t perfectionism; it’s character and respect, especially when kids are in the mix. Tati pairs that with a broader principle—stop getting mad at things that don’t require anger. From needless road-rage to manufacturing drama, she refuses to “cosign” other people’s spirals and saves her limited daily “cares” for what actually matters.

Next, Tati goes in on a cultural script: women watering themselves down to seem cuter, smaller, or “out of the loop.” She rejects playing dumb and the glamorization of being “so old” at 30. The point isn’t judgment; it’s identity. If you’re built for big impact, living tiny will always feel wrong. Travis counters with something practical and revealing—permanently dead phones. Not as a tech gripe, but as a readiness signal: poor battery is often poor planning and scattered attention.

Tati’s third peeve is people who complain with zero desire for a solution. Venting is valid when consented to; stewing is a choice. Bring a problem, bring willingness. Travis models what that looks like by labeling a personal trigger, lights left on, as a “me thing” he owns without making it everyone else’s burden. That rolls into his “getting out of the house” pain point and a practical strategy: he waits to get ready until the longer-prep people are truly ready.

Tati’s fourth: advice from non-practitioners (money tips from the broke; relationship tips from chaos). Her fifth is delightfully specific: aggressive gum chewing in social settings.

Travis closes with a service-industry PSA: Servers should say what’s 86’d upfront and don’t stealth-swap Sprite for Starry. Guests will choose differently when informed, and everyone wins.

Welcome to another episode of Heart & Hustle! Follow us for more and let us know where you found us!!

Tati:

• IG - ⁠⁠@tationathomas⁠⁠

• TikTok - ⁠⁠@tati_thomas⁠⁠

Travis:

• IG - ⁠⁠@timefortravis⁠⁠

• TikTok - ⁠⁠@thejuicebeloose⁠⁠

YouTube: ⁠⁠LINK

🔑 Key Takeaways For Listeners✅ You can break generational patterns — even if no one before you has.

✅ Your past does not have to become your personality or destiny.

✅ Trauma doesn’t disqualify you — it prepares you.

✅ Presence with your family is worth more than profit.

✅ Being the cycle breaker is lonely, but it’s worth it.

✅ You are allowed to choose peace over blood relation.

✅ Success means nothing if you miss the moments that matter.

In this raw, funny, and deeply human episode of Heart & Hustle, Tati sits down with her husband and co-host Travis to unpack the story he’s avoided telling for years. Travis explains why he used to keep his life off the internet before opening up about the man he calls his true dad, the father who taught him practical skills and presence between long stints on the road. At 19, Travis’ world split open: his dad died in a car accident, and overnight he became the steady adult for a grieving mother and two young nieces. The conversation explores money chaos at home, alcoholism, and the quiet decisions a teenager makes to become the grown-up in the room.You’ll hear how estrangement from extended family shaped his values and why he rejected the “that’s just how our family is” script. Travis talks about discovering chosen family, what a healthy holiday felt like for the first time, and how that vision now drives his own parenting. He then walks through launching a brick-and-mortar collectibles shop with his brother, learning business in real time, and the $400 pricing mistake that forged his operating standards. From there, Travis breaks down his signature edge-owner-level customer service-and shares the most outrageous insults he’s swallowed with a grin.

Tati and Travis fast-forward to meeting through a local restaurateur they both considered a mentor, moving in quickly with intention, and becoming parents. The episode dives into why they chose stay-at-home parenting, how side hustles buffered that choice, and the way COVID forced them to re-evaluate time, priorities, and business models. Travis explains stepping away from daily retail operations, tightening SOPs, collaborating respectfully with his brother, and building modern, location-flexible brands that don’t require him on the sales floor to work.

The through line is identity by decision: refusing to be a product of environment, choosing family over appearances, and designing work that supports fatherhood first. If you’ve ever wondered how to break generational patterns, leave a storefront without abandoning a dream, or build a business around micro-moments with your kids, this episode is your blueprint.

Welcome to another episode of Heart & Hustle! Follow us for more and let us know where you found us!!

Tati:

• IG - ⁠@tationathomas⁠

• TikTok - ⁠@tati_thomas⁠

Travis:

• IG - ⁠@timefortravis⁠

• TikTok - ⁠@thejuicebeloose⁠

YouTube: ⁠LINK

Audit Your Everyday Habits

🔑 Key Takeaways For Listeners

✅ Intention beats autopilot. Any habit can help or hurt depending on how consciously you use it.

✅ Create before you consume. One concrete rule (post before scroll) flips screen time into an asset.

✅ Stack the right habits. Habit stacking works both ways - pair constructive habits on purpose.

✅ Calendar the life you want. Put family time on the calendar first, then fit work/social around it.

✅ Spend to expand (wisely). Self-reward is legit; use it to raise your wealth ceiling, not to self-soothe on repeat.

In this episode, Tati and Travis share a practical time and energy audit that helps you turn five everyday habits into momentum. The goal is simple: stop living on autopilot and start choosing how you spend your attention. They unpack screen time, reading, family time, socialization, and retail therapy, then offer simple shifts that align with your values, goals, and season of life.

• The conversation starts with screen time. Instead of doom scrolling, use a create-before-you-consume rule. Post one piece of content or capture a quick idea, then scroll. Avoid dual-screening TV plus phone, which kills true decompression and adds noise. Around kids, be present or step away. Make screen time a tool for learning, creativity, and connection.

• Next is reading. Reading engages imagination and perspective in ways video does not. It opens new thinking, trains focus, and often delivers that “I never saw it like that” shift. Books, long-form articles, and expert threads all count. Build short daily blocks to make reading automatic.

• Third is family time. Put family on the calendar first, then fit work and social plans around it. Design the week you actually want. Whether you have a 9 to 5, run a business, or freelance, the point is intention. If your current setup does not support the parent or partner you want to be, start building a new structure one block at a time.

• Fourth is socialization. Choose rooms and people that raise your standards. Sports and team activities give kids community, leadership, and reps with shared goals. Adults need that too. Audit who gets your evenings and weekends. Align your circle with the identity you are building.

• Finally, reframe retail therapy as self-reward. Purchases can either reinforce a wealth ceiling or stretch it. Spend with intention. Invest in tools, experiences, or education that expand capacity. The “first-class stretch” idea works because it pushes you to operate at a higher level and earn from that identity. Reward yourself, but do it in ways that support the future you.

• Key takeaway: any habit can serve you if you make it intentional. Stack good habits together, remove the ones that clash, and let your calendar reflect your real priorities. Try one simple move this week. Create before you scroll, read for ten minutes, schedule one non-negotiable family block, text a growth-minded friend to plan an activity, or make your next self-reward something that compounds.