This is a BIG ONE YALL.

Most people have heard about Abigail Porter, aka The Girl With The List, the internets most iconic and influential child free person with over almost 350 reasons to never have children. If you've seen her, you know its her mission to inform women on the risks and dangers of pregnancy told from the perspectives of moms around the world who have dealt with life altering complications of complete loss of self identity.

In this episode Aja asks Abigail all about her mormon upbringing, leaving the church at 16, how her career has impacted her relationship with her family and of course, Abigails choice to never have children.

Should I be a mom? or Should I have a kid? Will I regret having kids? These are some of the most difficult questions that women struggle with so of course we talk about the realities of pregnancy, postpartum and the expectation that women are supposed to enjoy being moms, even if they don't.

Besties, let us know how you feel about this episode and if you have kids and regret it OR if you're thinking about having kids and arent sure if its the right choice.

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Besties, let us know what y'all think on this one!

-Grant & Aja

This is another Bestie-mail episode for the books..

There's a lot of kinks and fetishes in the world and most of them I don't judge and hell even the one we discussed in this episode I don't judge but the way he went about it was INSANE. And now pregnancy will never be the same for her.

I guess the theme in this episode would be family. Here are the letters Aja & Grant read

1. My Mom Hates Me
2. My Husband is Obsessed with my Body
3. I'm Pregnant at 17

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Besties, our most asked question is "what is it like dating interracially?" but our second???!!

"How have y'all been together for NINE years?"

So we're finally answering it.

This week we're talking about what actually keeps a long-term relationship healthy, from communication and trust to keeping the spark alive, learning your partner, and why some couples grow together while others slowly drift apart.

If you're dating, in a long-term relationship, or single wanting insight to help your dating journey, this episode will give y'all a few things to take into your own relationship/lives

Let us know what you think and how you've stayed in love with your partner over the years!

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Besties, let us know what y'all think on this one!

-Grant & Aja