No one really tells you what life actually feels like after college.

There's no clear structure anymore. No defined path. And for the first time, it's fully on you to figure out what comes next.

In this episode, I talk about post-grad life and why this phase can feel so uncertain. The pressure to have things figured out, the questions about your career, your friends, your future, and the feeling that you might be falling behind.

I get into why this happens, why you start to doubt yourself, and how to handle uncertainty when you don't have clear answers. What it means to feel lost in your 20s, how to deal with big life transitions, and how to start trusting yourself as you figure things out.

If you've been feeling lost after college, unsure about your next step, or you're about to graduate and starting to feel this coming, this is that experience put into words.

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Why does it feel like everyone is watching you at the gym? Why do you feel like an imposter, even when you've been showing up consistently?

In this episode, I break down the internal monologue of lifting, what gym imposter syndrome actually feels like, and why that voice in your head doesn't fully go away. I talk about the moment I felt like I didn't deserve a bench, how that brought me back to when I first started, and the mindset shift that changed everything.

If you've ever felt judged, out of place, or unsure of yourself at the gym or in your life, this episode is for you.

Timestamps:

0:00 Intro

0:18 Why I started lifting

2:30 Feeling like an imposter at the gym

3:45 The bench moment

7:10 "I don't deserve to be here"

9:20 The realization: no one is watching you

12:00 Why you have to keep showing up

15:00 Why guys don't talk about this

18:30 Everyone feels this way

24:30 The mindset shift

27:10 Take up space

New episodes every Tuesday. Subscribe for more conversations on confidence, dating, mindset, and the questions you don't know where to ask.

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How do you respond to a breakup text? Should you send one after a few dates? What if sex felt awkward the first time? And how do you actually come across as confident on a date?

In this episode of Guyset, I answer real questions guys are asking about breakups, awkward sex, confidence, rejection, and navigating situations no one really prepares you for.

If you've ever overthought a text, felt unsure after a hookup, or questioned how you come across on a date, this episode will give you real, honest perspective on what to do next.

This episode covers:

• How to respond to a breakup text (and what not to say)
• Whether you should send a breakup text after 2–3 dates
• How many drinks is too many at a work happy hour
• What to do if sex felt awkward or "bad"
• How to come across as more confident on a date
• How to deal with rejection (especially when you really wanted something)

Timestamps:

02:33 How do I respond to a breakup text?

06:55 Should I send a breakup text after 2–3 dates?

09:16 How many drinks should you have at a work happy hour?

15:36 I felt bad after having sex, where do I go from here?

20:53 How do I come across as more confident on a date?

25:20 I didn't get the job I wanted, how do I deal with rejection?

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