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An affair doesn't start with a kiss. It starts with a thousand small yeses nobody else sees.

In this episode, Connor and Pastor Scott have an honest conversation about one of the most sensitive topics in marriage: guarding your eyes. Anchored in Job 31:1, "I made a covenant with my eyes not to look lustfully at a young woman," they talk about how temptation has become part of everyday life (even the commercials), why willpower alone won't get you through it, and what it looks like to protect your heart and your marriage.

In this episode:

• Why compromise starts long before any line is crossed
• Paul's call to flee, and why "I can handle it" is the trap
• Pre-deciding before the moment comes, especially with pornography
• The "first look vs. second look" principle
• Why guardrails aren't a lack of trust but an act of love
• Connor's story of the guardrails he kept to himself, and why you build them together with your spouse
• "Simple, not easy": getting honest, getting help, and getting free

Whether you're in a battle right now or want to stay ahead of one, this conversation is for you and your spouse. Who you are when no one's around matters.

Scripture: Job 31:1 · Matthew 5:28 · 1 Corinthians 6:18 · James 4:7 · Proverbs 24:16

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