Are you living like your life is on pause? Courtney challenges listeners to look at what they might be postponing or idolizing in their waiting season. This episode provides practical and spiritual encouragement to live fully - today.

This episode answers:

- What does it look like to “live in the waiting room”?

- How do we know if we’ve made the future an idol?

- What’s the cost of postponing joy and obedience?

- How can we embrace singleness or transitions with purpose?

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Courtney takes a deep dive into her reflections after six months of marriage, exploring what truly matters and what surprised her most. This episode challenges assumptions and encourages women to reframe how they see singleness and readiness.

What You’ll Learn

• Why friendship, not just romance, is the foundation of marriage
• How self-awareness and healing work in singleness pay off later
• Why “you don’t lose yourself” when you say “I do”
• What purity culture doesn’t prepare you for
• Why being 100% healed before marriage isn’t necessary—or biblical
• The importance of merging lives practically and emotionally
• How to love your single life while still desiring marriage

Quotes from the Episode

• "You don't lose yourself in marriage. You actually create something new."
• "If marriage is the solution to all of your problems, you’re going to be really disappointed."
• "Healing in singleness is never wasted—it equips you for what’s ahead."
• "I am not a marriage pro. I’m just a baby wife reflecting with you from my own story."
• "It’s not 50% + 50% = one. It’s 100% + 100% creating something entirely new."

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Have you ever looked back and realized a small choice led to a massive life change? In this episode, Courtney and Nick explore the “Butterfly Effect”—how the smallest nudges, coffee chats, or Holy Spirit whispers can set off a chain reaction that changes everything. From missed opportunities to divine redirection, this conversation blends storytelling, theology, and humor to help you notice the moments that matter.

🎙️ You’ll hear:

• Real-life examples of butterfly-effect moments in their own relationship and careers
• What the Butterfly Effect is—and what it isn’t
• Encouragement for those in transition or wrestling with purpose
• Honest thoughts about free will, God's sovereignty, and anxiety around choices

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💡 If you’ve ever wondered if your small acts matter, this one’s for you.

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Sometimes the most powerful episodes come from unplanned conversations. Courtney and Nick open up about their early dating journey and use it to reflect on deeper questions of trust, trauma, and emotional safety. What happens when you’re late to a first date? How does past trauma affect the way we show up in relationships? And can holding hands really mean something more?

Questions this episode answers:

• How do our past stories affect how we date?
• What does it mean to take emotional “data” in dating?
• How do we distinguish between nerves and red flags?
• Why does healthy love sometimes feel... boring?
• What’s “story engagement” and how can it help us grow?

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• What happens when engagement is not just full of excitement but also full of unexpected challenges? In this deeply personal episode, Courtney and Nick get real about the season of engagement—what no one prepares you for. From merging finances and navigating the emotions of leaving singleness behind to learning the true meaning of commitment, they share their journey with raw honesty and faith. Whether you're engaged, dating, or hoping for marriage one day, this conversation offers wisdom on navigating the transition with faith, grace, and honesty.
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• Key Takeaways:
• • Engagement is about merging lives, not just planning a wedding.
  • Trust and commitment must be lived out daily.
  • Moving from long-distance to daily life brought unexpected challenges.
  • Money conversations are crucial before marriage.
  • Emotional processing and past experiences shape engagement.

  
  

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In this episode, Courtney and Nick share the full story of their engagement, from the planning and anticipation to the big surprise. They discuss the thoughtfulness behind the proposal, the challenges of keeping a secret, and how faith played a role in bringing everything together perfectly. Tune in to hear the funny, emotional, and heartfelt moments from one of the most special days of their lives.

Key Takeaways:

• Thoughtfulness makes all the difference in big life moments.
• Surprises can be fun but also nerve-wracking!
• Community and family involvement can make milestones more special.
• God’s timing brings things together in unexpected ways.

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Courtney and Nick are back! After several months of major life transitions—moving states, changing careers, and getting married—they sit down for an honest conversation about where they’ve been and what’s ahead. They share their reflections on trusting God’s timing, building a strong marriage foundation, and their future plans for the podcast.

Questions Answered in This Episode:

• Why did Courtney and Nick take a break from the podcast?
• How did they navigate major life transitions while planning a wedding?
• What role did faith play in their decision-making?
• What’s next for Grace for the Growth?
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Courtney revisits her 2023 talk from the “’Tis the Single Season” summit to uplift single Christian women during the holidays. Drawing from Mary’s response to God’s call, Courtney helps you:- Understand the power of surrendering your plans to God’s greater story- Embrace singleness as a season rich with potential and purpose- Find comfort in honest conversations with God, yourself, and trusted community- Learn how to navigate the holiday season with faith, hope, and the reassurance that God is working abundantly behind the scenes.

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