Are you living like your life is on pause? Courtney challenges listeners to look at what they might be postponing or idolizing in their waiting season. This episode provides practical and spiritual encouragement to live fully - today.

This episode answers:

- What does it look like to “live in the waiting room”?

- How do we know if we’ve made the future an idol?

- What’s the cost of postponing joy and obedience?

- How can we embrace singleness or transitions with purpose?

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Courtney takes a deep dive into her reflections after six months of marriage, exploring what truly matters and what surprised her most. This episode challenges assumptions and encourages women to reframe how they see singleness and readiness.

What You’ll Learn

• Why friendship, not just romance, is the foundation of marriage
• How self-awareness and healing work in singleness pay off later
• Why “you don’t lose yourself” when you say “I do”
• What purity culture doesn’t prepare you for
• Why being 100% healed before marriage isn’t necessary—or biblical
• The importance of merging lives practically and emotionally
• How to love your single life while still desiring marriage

Quotes from the Episode

• "You don't lose yourself in marriage. You actually create something new."
• "If marriage is the solution to all of your problems, you’re going to be really disappointed."
• "Healing in singleness is never wasted—it equips you for what’s ahead."
• "I am not a marriage pro. I’m just a baby wife reflecting with you from my own story."
• "It’s not 50% + 50% = one. It’s 100% + 100% creating something entirely new."

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Have you ever looked back and realized a small choice led to a massive life change? In this episode, Courtney and Nick explore the “Butterfly Effect”—how the smallest nudges, coffee chats, or Holy Spirit whispers can set off a chain reaction that changes everything. From missed opportunities to divine redirection, this conversation blends storytelling, theology, and humor to help you notice the moments that matter.

🎙️ You’ll hear:

• Real-life examples of butterfly-effect moments in their own relationship and careers
• What the Butterfly Effect is—and what it isn’t
• Encouragement for those in transition or wrestling with purpose
• Honest thoughts about free will, God's sovereignty, and anxiety around choices

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💡 If you’ve ever wondered if your small acts matter, this one’s for you.

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FREE access to the Design Your Dream Solo Date Masterclass + Workbook: ⁠⁠⁠https://courtneyleo.ck.page/solodate⁠⁠⁠

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If you are interested in one on one coaching, email me at hello@courtneyleo.com and we can set up a call to chat about your specific needs!

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