In this week's episode of Good Girls, hosts Kay and SJ dive into the wild world of early 2000s pickup artistry from Neil Strauss's The Game, testing tactics like negging (subtle disses to spark attraction), peacocking (flashy outfits to stand out), time pressure, kino escalation (gradual touching), and push-pull (hot-and-cold flirting) on each other. Is confidence sexy, or does it veer into toxic territory? They role-play club scenarios, laugh over Mystery's fur hat and soul patches, and debate why these "tricks" might actually lower social stakes—or just come off as creepy.

Shifting gears, they explore healthier alternatives from Mark Manson's Models, emphasizing non-neediness and vulnerability over alpha-male posturing. Touching on the male loneliness epidemic, Emily Nagoski's insights on women's diverse turn-ons, and why they aren't secretly chasing Christian Grey, Kay and SJ talk attraction, consent, and evolving gender dynamics. Plus: Romantasy confessions, a demon anatomy revelation, and a shoutout to peak female friendships. Tune in for laughs, lore, and a reminder that genuine connection beats any scripted line.

SJ and Kay sit down with Lukas, a gay romance author whose upcoming novel, Pickle Your Fancy, blends sports satire, hot locker room scenes, and a poignant coming-out narrative. The trio starts with a playful Mary, Fuck, Kill game, debating the merits of David Rose, Will from Nashville, and Lukas’s own character Mason. Lukas opens up about his journey to full-time writing, sharing how his love for crafting stories, sparked by Enya-fueled journaling sessions in school, led him to make the jump from corporate tech after he authored a WSJ bestseller.

The discussion turns to the craft of writing sex scenes that move the plot forward, with Lukas explaining how he tests scenes with beta readers to ensure they hit the mark and the science of picking the right words. SJ and Kay explore the ethics of book pirating, citing studies that debunk myths about who pirates and why, while Lucas reflects on the impact of corporate theft on authors. From his plans for a rapid-fire release strategy to his excitement for untapped subgenres like gay lit RPG, this episode offers a deep dive into the challenges and joys of breaking into romance as a gay male author, all wrapped in witty banter and genuine camaraderie.

The Good Girls tackle the "nice guy" phenomenon: are they truly good, or just insecure dudes waiting for a vending machine that pays out sex after 3 dates? We play Marry, Fuck, Rapture with three famous nice guys, debate toxic positivity, and talk about odd nice guy sex scenes...in throuples because why not. From incel Reddit rants to the allure of bad-but-good boys like Mr. Darcy and Xaden, we talk confidence, agency, and why grocery store sushi doesn’t buy love...or sexy time with Kay. Plus, a Rosh Hashanah tribute to nice Jewish boys and a daddy kink update with Sandy Cohen. Grab your headphones for this unfiltered episode!

Hosts SJ and Kay dive into the allure of daddy kinks, bad boys, and boss-secretary tropes with a game of Marry, Fuck, Kill. They explore the psychological pull of age gaps, sexy Shadow Daddies from Xaden Riorson to Mr. Darcy, and power dynamics in fiction versus real life. The ethics of relationships with undeniable power imbalances are questioned...while fictional romance books and movies with these same imbalances are embraced...including by Kay. As usual, the hosts blend humor, personal stories, and sharp insights, encouraging listeners to embrace their kinks while critically examining these steamy and prevalent tropes. Who does SJ pick to do the dirty with in the choice of our real-life Shadow Daddy/Bad Boy Kurt Cobain, our Daddy Mr. Big, and our Boss Christian Grey? Listen to find out!

Welcome to the hot mess that is SJ and Kay's discussion of Gary Chapman’s five love languages. We roast the actual book’s caveman-era beliefs (women don't like sex? have you met our co-host Kay?), cackle over bros claiming blowjobs as their love language, and love on a tango-dancing grandpa. Kay’s got heart-eyes for an adult film star’s boomerang peeny, while SJ’s baffled by studies about strangers touching wrists (who funds this?). With shoutouts to Sabrina Carpenter’s “I run this” album cover energy and tips for dodging father-in-law carpool awkwardness (...unless you have a daddy kink, then carry on), this episode is a rollercoaster of snark and heart. Whether you’re into gifts, cuddles, or...down-there time, this episode’s got you covered with laughs and real talk about love’s weird, wonderful ways.

SJ and Kay discuss the persistent tragedy facing heterosexual women, The Orgasm Gap. This 30% pleasure difference means guys finish 8 out of 10 times, while straight gals are stuck at 4-5, probably wondering if their climax got lost in the mail. Meanwhile, ladies in lesbian relationships are racking up 6-8 and making hosts question why sexuality can’t be a choice. The clitoris is not a secret level in a video game, yet a third of surveyed people can’t find it on a vagina map. As always, books are discussed with main male leads ranked in their sexual prowess, a report fresh from Good Girls Research Division. SJ and Kay advocate for open communication, sexual exploration, and quirky resources to close the gap. People, there is a nationwide sex recession! This is serious business.

Hello dear Good Girls listeners—yep, we’re the #41 sex podcast tearing up Saudi Arabia, and we’re about to blow your mind! Today, we’re ripping into sex myths. Think vaginas stretching to Grand Canyon proportions, semen that’s basically a prozac, and pineapples turning your downstairs into a tropical buffet. With unhinged tales, questionable “science,” and our signature cackle, we’re debunking the wildest bedroom rumors. So, put in those earbuds—especially if your father-in-law’s in the car—and let’s dive into this NSFW rollercoaster!

Buckle up for a wild ride as we talk about what makes a guy go from "meh" to "take me now" faster than you can say "nectar juices." Whether it’s a dude juggling a soccer ball, or making a cello moan in ways that’d make Yo-Yo Ma blush, we’re dissecting the activities that crank up the sexy. We dive into romance novel tropes, from Fourth Wing’s Xaden Riorson (leather pants, emotional baggage, and all) to Samson’s jawbone-wielding, loincloth-clad chaos (hottest biblical character??). Things get spicy as we roast unrealistic expectations—like communal vibrator drawers in a sports star’s bedroom (ew?)—and tackle the orgasm gap. Oh, and did you know Utah’s getting more nip-tucks than a Hollywood housewife? Blame the Proverbs 31 pressure to be a saintly MILF. Get ready for a savage, laugh-out-loud episode that’s equal parts thirst trap and social takedown!

Episode rating: 2/3 🍆🍆. R-rated content. Talking about sex with adult language and raunchy humor.