Have you ever found yourself asking, “Is this my anxious attachment acting up… or is something actually off with him?” You’re not crazy—and you’re not alone.

In this powerful episode of Girl, Date the Good Guy, Emily breaks down one of the most confusing questions Christian women face in dating: How do you tell the difference between your own anxiety and a man’s inconsistent behavior?

Drawing from her personal testimony after years of heartbreak, toxic relationships, and deep healing, Emily shares how dating a God-led man became her real-life training ground. She opens up about anxious attachment, learning to use her voice after narcissistic abuse, and how peaceful, consistent love revealed what safety truly feels like.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• The difference between anxious attachment vs. red-flag inconsistency

• Why peace, not chemistry, is the proof of a Good Guy

• How inconsistent communication creates anxiety—even in healed women

• What God-led love looks like in real life (clear communication, emotional safety, and consistency)

• Biblical discernment for Christian dating after trauma or heartbreak

• How to stop blaming yourself and start trusting God’s design for healthy love

This conversation is for the woman who loves God but keeps attracting confusing, emotionally unavailable men—and is ready to break toxic dating cycles for good.

If you’re healing from heartbreak, navigating Christian dating, or learning how to trust again without losing yourself, this episode will bring clarity, peace, and truth.

✨ You are not “too much.” You were just never meant to do love in chaos.

Hit play and step into your royal training—where women reclaim their crowns, heal their hearts, and learn to attract God-led love.

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What if God loves you right where you are—not the future, more healed version of you… but you, today?

In this Soothe Her Soul Saturday episode of Girl, Date the Good Guy, we speak life and truth over the woman who feels unworthy, distant from God, or stuck in cycles of shame, sin, or darkness. This episode is a gentle royal pause—an invitation to rest in the truth that God’s love is not based on perfection, performance, or rule-keeping, but on relationship.

You’ll be reminded that God meets us in our mess, walks with us through healing, and loves us with an everlasting love that is strong enough to restore every broken place. This episode releases the pressure to “get it all together” and replaces it with the freedom of full surrender and an open heart.

In this episode, you’ll be encouraged to remember:

• You are worthy of all the good things God has for you

• God loves you even in the struggle, even in the darkness

• Healing happens through relationship, not religion

• Surrender, not perfection, is what invites transformation

• God desires to walk with you, not just correct you

If you’ve been feeling distant from God, weighed down by shame, or afraid that your past disqualifies you from His love, this episode will meet you with grace, truth, and hope.

This is your royal return— back to the Father’s heart, back to rest, back to love.

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In this Girl Behind the Mic episode, Emily Jordan tackles one of the most confusing questions Christian women face while dating: Is he a red flag… or is he just growing? With honesty, compassion, and biblical wisdom, this episode breaks down how to discern between a man who is genuinely growing in Christ and one who is emotionally unavailable, inconsistent, or unsafe — even if he claims to love God.

This conversation is for women who are tired of second-guessing their intuition, excusing concerning behavior as “potential,” or feeling anxious and confused in Christian dating relationships. Emily shares faith-based dating advice rooted in discernment, boundaries, and fruit inspection — not perfection, pressure, or rushing.

You’ll learn how to recognize the difference between growth and red flags, why potential is not the same as alignment, and how God’s peace (not confusion) is one of the clearest indicators of whether a relationship is God-led. This episode encourages women to stop trying to fix or grow men and instead trust God to reveal what is meant for them — and what is not.

If you’re navigating Christian dating, healing from toxic relationship patterns, or learning how to set biblical boundaries while waiting for a Godly man, this episode will bring clarity, peace, and direction.

In this episode, we discuss:

• Christian dating discernment for women

• Red flags vs spiritual growth in men

• How to know if a man is emotionally and spiritually mature

• Biblical relationship boundaries and standards

• Why potential is not a green flag

• Dating God’s way without confusion or compromise

• Recognizing fruit, consistency, and accountability

• Healing patterns of attracting unhealthy relationships

Key Scripture Referenced:

• Matthew 7:16 — “You will know them by their fruit.”

• 1 Corinthians 14:33 — “God is not a God of confusion, but of peace.”

🎧 New episodes of Girl, Date the Good Guy – Girl Behind the Mic drop every Friday.

Until next time, sis — trust your discernment, guard your heart, and never ignore what God is gently revealing.

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If you’ve ever wondered, “Is this healthy… or am I just attached?” this episode is for you.

In this episode of Girl, Date the Good Guy, we’re breaking down seven clear signs you’re dating a good guy — not based on butterflies, chemistry, or emotional highs, but on peace, safety, consistency, and God-led discernment.

So many Christian women have been taught to confuse anxiety with attraction and intensity with love. But in Kingdom dating, peace is the proof. A God-led man will not leave you confused, triggered, or questioning your worth. He will create emotional safety, communicate clearly, show up consistently, and align with your faith, values, and future.

Inside this episode, you’ll learn:

• The difference between chemistry and discernment in Christian dating

• How to recognize emotional safety vs anxious attachment

• Why peace is a key sign of a healthy, God-led relationship

• Biblical wisdom for identifying a good man vs a toxic pattern

• How to stop settling and start dating with clarity and standards

This episode is part of The Good Guy Society — a royal training ground where women reclaim their crown, heal their heart, and attract God-led love. If you’re healing from heartbreak, breaking toxic cycles, or learning how to date God’s way, this conversation will bring clarity, confidence, and peace back into your dating life.

🎧 Hit play and let’s continue your royal training.

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Have you ever realized that you’ve been surviving for so long, you forgot who you were before the pain?

In this Soothe Her Soul Saturday episode of Girl, Date the Good Guy, we speak life, truth, and hope into the woman who has been living in survival mode after heartbreak. This episode is for the woman who learned how to protect herself, stay guarded, and keep going—but is now exhausted and ready for real healing with God.

Through faith-based encouragement and gentle truth, we explore what happens when heartbreak blurs identity, why survival mode is not your permanent state, and how God lovingly calls you back to your true self. This episode is a royal pause—a moment to exhale, soften, and remember who you are beneath the coping, the guarding, and the striving.

You’ll be reminded that:

• Survival mode may have kept you alive, but it was never meant to define you

• Heartbreak does not determine your worth or your identity

• God heals not by erasing your story, but by redeeming it

• You are allowed to feel, trust, hope, and receive love again

• Returning to God restores the woman you were always meant to be

If you’re healing from heartbreak, rebuilding your identity, or learning how to trust God again after emotional pain, this episode will meet you right where you are—with softness, truth, and grace.

This is your royal return. From surviving… to living. From guarding… to grounding. From heartbreak… to healing.

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In this Girl Behind the Mic episode, Emily Jordan opens up about the version of herself that lived in survival mode — functioning, pushing forward, and coping — but not truly healed. Through personal testimony and faith-filled reflection, she shares how heartbreak, loss, and prolonged pain can teach us how to survive while quietly disconnecting us from our hearts, our identity, and even God.

This episode is for the woman who feels strong on the outside but exhausted on the inside — the one who’s been “making it” but knows deep down she’s ready for more than survival. Emily unpacks how healing doesn’t begin with answers or perfection, but with surrender, honesty, and staying connected to God as the true source of restoration.

Together, we explore the difference between surviving and living, why God doesn’t shame us for survival mode, and how He gently invites us into wholeness, rest, discernment, and God-led love. This is a raw, Holy Spirit–led conversation about healing heartbreak with God, rediscovering your identity, and learning who you really are beneath the armor.

If you’ve ever felt stuck in survival, emotionally guarded, or disconnected while still loving God — this episode is for you.

In this episode, you’ll hear about:

• What survival mode really looks like after heartbreak and loss

• Why surviving isn’t the same as being healed or whole

• How God restores identity after emotional pain

• Healing heartbreak through surrender instead of striving

• Letting go of emotional armor and reconnecting with God

• Discovering who you are beneath coping and self-protection

• Faith-based healing for women navigating grief, loss, and exhaustion

Key Scriptures Referenced:

• John 15:5 — “I am the vine; you are the branches.”

• Psalm 34:18 — The Lord is close to the brokenhearted.

If this episode spoke to you, take a moment to pause, reflect, and invite God into the places you’ve been surviving instead of living. Healing doesn’t have to be rushed — it just has to be rooted.

🎧 New episodes of Girl Behind the Mic drop every Friday.

Until next time, sis — stay connected, stay honest, and keep choosing healing.

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Friends with benefits is often sold as freedom, empowerment, and “no-strings-attached” fun — but why does it leave so many women feeling emptier, more anxious, and more broken than before?

In this episode of Girl, Date the Good Guy, Emily exposes the spiritual, emotional, and relational truth behind friends with benefits — a dating pattern God never designed and one that quietly breaks women’s hearts.

Through biblical wisdom and personal testimony, Emily reveals how casual intimacy feeds the flesh instead of the spirit, creates unhealthy soul ties, and keeps women stuck in cycles of confusion, attachment, and emotional pain — especially for women with anxious attachment.

This is the Christian dating truth no one wants to talk about… but every woman needs to hear if she desires real healing, real love, and God-aligned relationships.

• Why friends with benefits feels empowering at first but leads to heartbreak

• How casual sex creates emotional and spiritual soul ties

• Why this pattern increases anxiety, attachment, and disconnection

• How the enemy distorts intimacy to keep women bound

• What God actually designed intimacy and dating for

• Why purity is about protection, not restriction

• What to do instead if you want healing and God-led love

This episode is for the woman who:

• Feels empty after casual dating or hookups

• Is stuck in a friends-with-benefits or situationship

• Struggles with anxious attachment and emotional bonding

• Wants to honor God but feels conflicted by modern dating culture

• Craves safe, secure, committed love — not temporary connection

“Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.” — Proverbs 4:23

“For God did not call us to impurity, but to live a holy life.” — 1 Thessalonians 4:7

If casual intimacy hasn’t healed you, it’s not because you’re broken — it’s because it was never meant to. God’s design leads to freedom, clarity, and love that doesn’t cost you your heart.

If this episode spoke to you, share it with a sister who needs truth over trends. Leave a review on Apple Podcasts so more women can find healing and step into their royal identity. And remember, sis — you were never created for casual love.

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Sis, come sit with me — no fixing, no explaining, just truth. When heartbreak whispers that you weren’t enough, this episode holds a gentle space to separate the wound from your worth.

Through a tender, honest narrative we trace how pain distorts identity, how rejection can feel like a verdict, and how God’s voice quietly remembers who you were created to be. This is a royal pause: a moment to breathe, to let truth re-root you, and to refuse the lie that what left you defined you.

Listen as we move from confusion to clarity — learning to tend the places doubt took root, to rise with wisdom, and to put your crown back on unbroken. Breathe, queen. Your story is not over, and love will meet you again — this time aligned.

Contact: hello@girldatethegoodguy.com