Have you ever found yourself asking, “Is this my anxious attachment acting up… or is something actually off with him?” You’re not crazy—and you’re not alone.

In this powerful episode of Girl, Date the Good Guy, Emily breaks down one of the most confusing questions Christian women face in dating: How do you tell the difference between your own anxiety and a man’s inconsistent behavior?

Drawing from her personal testimony after years of heartbreak, toxic relationships, and deep healing, Emily shares how dating a God-led man became her real-life training ground. She opens up about anxious attachment, learning to use her voice after narcissistic abuse, and how peaceful, consistent love revealed what safety truly feels like.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• The difference between anxious attachment vs. red-flag inconsistency

• Why peace, not chemistry, is the proof of a Good Guy

• How inconsistent communication creates anxiety—even in healed women

• What God-led love looks like in real life (clear communication, emotional safety, and consistency)

• Biblical discernment for Christian dating after trauma or heartbreak

• How to stop blaming yourself and start trusting God’s design for healthy love

This conversation is for the woman who loves God but keeps attracting confusing, emotionally unavailable men—and is ready to break toxic dating cycles for good.

If you’re healing from heartbreak, navigating Christian dating, or learning how to trust again without losing yourself, this episode will bring clarity, peace, and truth.

✨ You are not “too much.” You were just never meant to do love in chaos.

Hit play and step into your royal training—where women reclaim their crowns, heal their hearts, and learn to attract God-led love.

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What if God loves you right where you are—not the future, more healed version of you… but you, today?

In this Soothe Her Soul Saturday episode of Girl, Date the Good Guy, we speak life and truth over the woman who feels unworthy, distant from God, or stuck in cycles of shame, sin, or darkness. This episode is a gentle royal pause—an invitation to rest in the truth that God’s love is not based on perfection, performance, or rule-keeping, but on relationship.

You’ll be reminded that God meets us in our mess, walks with us through healing, and loves us with an everlasting love that is strong enough to restore every broken place. This episode releases the pressure to “get it all together” and replaces it with the freedom of full surrender and an open heart.

In this episode, you’ll be encouraged to remember:

• You are worthy of all the good things God has for you

• God loves you even in the struggle, even in the darkness

• Healing happens through relationship, not religion

• Surrender, not perfection, is what invites transformation

• God desires to walk with you, not just correct you

If you’ve been feeling distant from God, weighed down by shame, or afraid that your past disqualifies you from His love, this episode will meet you with grace, truth, and hope.

This is your royal return— back to the Father’s heart, back to rest, back to love.

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In this Girl Behind the Mic episode, Emily Jordan tackles one of the most confusing questions Christian women face while dating: Is he a red flag… or is he just growing? With honesty, compassion, and biblical wisdom, this episode breaks down how to discern between a man who is genuinely growing in Christ and one who is emotionally unavailable, inconsistent, or unsafe — even if he claims to love God.

This conversation is for women who are tired of second-guessing their intuition, excusing concerning behavior as “potential,” or feeling anxious and confused in Christian dating relationships. Emily shares faith-based dating advice rooted in discernment, boundaries, and fruit inspection — not perfection, pressure, or rushing.

You’ll learn how to recognize the difference between growth and red flags, why potential is not the same as alignment, and how God’s peace (not confusion) is one of the clearest indicators of whether a relationship is God-led. This episode encourages women to stop trying to fix or grow men and instead trust God to reveal what is meant for them — and what is not.

If you’re navigating Christian dating, healing from toxic relationship patterns, or learning how to set biblical boundaries while waiting for a Godly man, this episode will bring clarity, peace, and direction.

In this episode, we discuss:

• Christian dating discernment for women

• Red flags vs spiritual growth in men

• How to know if a man is emotionally and spiritually mature

• Biblical relationship boundaries and standards

• Why potential is not a green flag

• Dating God’s way without confusion or compromise

• Recognizing fruit, consistency, and accountability

• Healing patterns of attracting unhealthy relationships

Key Scripture Referenced:

• Matthew 7:16 — “You will know them by their fruit.”

• 1 Corinthians 14:33 — “God is not a God of confusion, but of peace.”

🎧 New episodes of Girl, Date the Good Guy – Girl Behind the Mic drop every Friday.

Until next time, sis — trust your discernment, guard your heart, and never ignore what God is gently revealing.

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