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  • BDSM 107 - Who are these submissives?

    BDSM 107 - Who are these submissives?
    2026/02/14

    In this episode, we look at the archetypes that submissives present as. Not a one-size-fits-none, most actual people will blend some of these in how they are. But the archetypes give us a map to understand responses, reactions, behaviours, and the headspace that they are seeking from the Dom and from the dynamic.


    Submissive archetypes, then, and how to identify, engage with and deliver a positive outcome for them. Well, a positive outcome for that aspect of them, at least... because in the real world a submissive will always be more complicated than that!

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    22 分
  • BDSM 106 - The shapes of D/s

    BDSM 106 - The shapes of D/s
    2026/02/09

    D/s can be a language between two people, so what are the dialects that might be in place, and how do those nuances impact the perception and experience of that dynamic?

    In this episode we delve into the various shapes and models for D/s, and look at the different headspaces that can be engendered through those different models in practice.

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    18 分
  • BDSM 105 - Aftercare

    BDSM 105 - Aftercare
    2026/02/04

    Episode 4 ended as the scene came to a close, so now it's time for aftercare. Fundamental, but not everyone needs the same level, so what does good look like?

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    23 分
  • BDSM 104 - Planning The Scene

    BDSM 104 - Planning The Scene
    2026/01/31

    So, negotiations and preparation have been done, and it's time to think about what happens in the scene. What planning needs to take place?

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    22 分
  • BDSM 103 - Consent, Safewords and Managing when things go wrong

    BDSM 103 - Consent, Safewords and Managing when things go wrong
    2026/01/26

    Better safe(word) than sorry...

    Consent isn't just a simple yes, and when things go awry, it's always better to be prepared. Join Me as we look at getting ready to scene by understanding consent, setting the right safeword, and being prepared for when the unexpected happens.

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    21 分
  • BDSM 102

    BDSM 102
    2026/01/20

    Yay, we want a Ds dynamic, and we even found someone to do it with!

    Now what?

    This episode looks at how to negotiate the bounds and structures of the dynamic. What negotiation is - and isn't - and how to shape that potential.

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    32 分
  • BDSM 101

    BDSM 101
    2026/01/18

    Welcome. In this first episode, we look at what this podcast is all about, and cover some of the basics of BDSM dynamics

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    20 分