Why do the moments we look forward to sometimes fall flat?
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In this episode of Fulfilled, we break down the REAL reason big events often feel disappointing—and how to shift your mindset so you can actually enjoy them.
We’ll talk about perfectionism, the dopamine trap, social media comparison, and the pressure we put on ourselves to make everything "worth it." Plus, you’ll get actionable tips to help you stop chasing the perfect experience and start loving the real one.
In This Episode:
- Why big moments often don’t feel as good as we expect
- The psychology behind buildup and letdown
- How social media fuels perfectionism and FOMO
- Simple mindset shifts to enjoy life more
- Practical tools to manage expectations (without lowering your standards)
Timestamps:
00:00 – Why Big Moments Let Us Down
01:06 – My Concert Story: A Personal Letdown
02:59 – The Psychology of High Expectations
04:17 – How Social Media Fuels Unrealistic Standards
08:26 – The Dopamine Buildup Trap
10:07 – Mindset Shifts That Actually Work
10:21 – Springtime Anxiety & Social Pressure
11:54 – Tools to Manage Expectations
18:41 – Final Takeaway: Embrace Imperfection
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