Hosts and Offit Kurman partners Stephanie Lehman and Fara Rodriguez open the series by tracing their path from opposing counsel in matrimonial cases to law partners and friends, including a chance reconnection while both were pregnant that eventually led Fara back into practice and into partnership with Stephanie. The two turn the lens on their own lives, discussing what it is like to date and marry as divorce attorneys, why they each valued transparency and financial honesty over chemistry, and the practical, prenup-style conversations couples avoid at their own risk. They share candid stories from years of practice, including memorable moments from early cases, and outline the red flags they look for on a partner's social media before marriage. The episode closes with a preview of the next installment on how to choose a divorce lawyer.

00:00 Podcast Intro

01:00 Welcome and Why We're Doing This

02:00 How Stephanie and Fara Met

03:00 Fara's Path to Family Law

04:00 Reconnecting as Adversaries and Moms

05:00 Becoming Law Partners

06:00 Dating as a Divorce Lawyer

07:00 The Vetting Process and Prenup Talk

08:00 Baby Lawyer Stories and Asking Tough Questions

09:00 Why Couples Avoid the Hard Conversations

10:00 Red Flags Before Marriage

11:00 Debt, Transparency, and Financial Honesty

12:00 Social Media Red Flags

13:00 Marriage as a Business Partnership

14:00 Property, Resentment, and Trust

15:00 Next Time: How to Choose a Divorce Lawyer