This episode of Flex with Purpose features a powerful conversation between host Schalee Sanchez and guest Aaron Steensma, a former detective who transitioned from law enforcement to entrepreneurship and non-profit leadership. Aaron shares his personal journey of moving from New York to Texas with nothing but a dream, a prayer, and a red Honda Accord, eventually finding his calling in serving the first responder community. He opens up about his struggles with mental, physical, and spiritual wellness during his time in law enforcement and how hitting a breaking point led him to seek help and ultimately found "First Responder Wellness". The discussion explores themes of building in silence, the power of vulnerability, and the importance of legacy, drawing inspiration from Aaron’s father and grandfather. Join us to discover why a satisfying life isn't always an easy one, but one rooted in obedience and serving others.

What does it really mean to live with humility?

In this episode of Flex with Purpose, host Schalee Sánchez sits down with James Ingrahm to explore a powerful journey of identity, adversity, and transformation.

From growing up in Barbados to pursuing a professional tennis career across Europe and South America, James shares how an unexpected injury changed the course of his life—and how what once felt like loss became the path to something greater.

James opens up about the struggles of comparison, the tension between confidence and insecurity, and the deeper truth behind humility. Through personal stories, including a life-threatening cancer diagnosis, he reveals how true strength is not found in self-promotion, but in surrender, perspective, and gratitude.

This conversation will challenge the way you think about success, identity, and what it means to truly “flex with purpose.”

In this episode of Flex With Purpose, host Schalee Sanchez sits down with Bruce Arfsten for a powerful conversation about leadership, humility, and living a life of service. Bruce shares insights from his experience as Mayor of Addison, Texas, a real estate broker, and a leadership development trainer. Together they explore servant leadership, the importance of empathy, learning from others, and how small acts of kindness can create a ripple effect in the lives of those around us.

This conversation also highlights the power of mindset, gratitude, vulnerability, and the importance of pausing between stimulus and response so we can lead and live with greater wisdom and intentionality. If you're looking to grow personally, strengthen your relationships, and make a positive impact in your community, this episode will encourage and challenge you to live with purpose.

Schalee Sanchez sits down with Braden Sloan, a 20-year-old college student and fifth-generation farm kid from rural Missouri, for a thoughtful conversation on humility as a stabilizing force through both victories and heartbreak. What began as a chance meeting at Stonebriar Mall turns into an honest look at identity, resilience, and the kind of inner steadiness that keeps you grounded when life shifts fast.

Braden shares how humility showed up on the baseball field during one of his biggest moments—helping him stay focused under pressure, free from shame, and present in the game even when the outcome didn’t go as hoped. But the conversation goes deeper as he opens up about losing his father to stage-four lung cancer, and later facing the painful decision to sell their family cattle herd during a record-setting drought. Through grief, responsibility, and regret, Braden explains what it means to do your best with the resources you have—and how humility helps you release self-blame, learn from the valley, and keep moving forward.

The episode also highlights Braden’s commitment to growth through relationships and self-awareness. From intentionally listening to his grandmother’s wisdom to building the habit of journaling as a way to process emotions, recognize patterns, and make practical changes, Braden paints a picture of humility that’s not passive—it’s disciplined, reflective, and deeply human.

This is an episode about seeing other people clearly, redefining strength, and remembering the world doesn’t revolve around us—so we can live with more empathy, more peace, and more purpose.

If you’re navigating transition, loss, or growth, this conversation will meet you right where you are.

Schalee Sanchez welcomes Dr. Patrick Ryan, an award-winning pediatric dentist with nearly three decades of experience, for a warm and insightful conversation about humility, excellence, and the kind of leadership that earns trust over time. Known for the way he serves families with both skill and integrity, Dr. Ryan shares how his greatest accomplishments aren’t measured by recognition alone—but by the relationships he’s built, the peace he carries, and the commitment to always do the right thing.

Dr. Ryan reflects on the formative influence of his parents, what it taught him to work hard without chasing perfection, and why humility means staying honest—even when it requires admitting mistakes and learning in real time. He explains how an unexpected aptitude test helped set him on the path to dentistry, and how a year working as a dental assistant shaped his heart for pediatric care—teaching him that listening well is one of the most powerful tools in any profession.

The conversation also explores the pressure professionals face when money, image, or performance become the driving force. Dr. Ryan offers a compelling alternative: lead with integrity, treat people like you would treat your own family, and never misuse the trust others place in you. As a husband and father of four, he shares how family has helped him keep a healthy perspective—pursuing excellence without letting work consume what matters most.

This episode is an encouragement to be authentic, stay teachable, and keep reaching for meaningful goals—even when the first attempt comes up short. It’s a reminder that the best version of you isn’t built through applause, but through character, consistency, and compassion.

Schalee Sanchez sits down with entrepreneur, real estate broker, and father of four Chris Clary for a grounded, practical conversation about humility, leadership, and what real success actually looks like. Chris shares how some of his greatest wins didn’t come from business growth alone, but from intentional decisions to prioritize his marriage, his children, and the people entrusted to his leadership.

Chris reflects on pivotal mentors who shaped his approach to life and work, teaching him the power of staying teachable, listening well, and resisting the pressure to have all the answers. From navigating real estate transactions to leading teams and raising kids, he explains why humility builds trust, why honesty creates stronger relationships, and why collaboration consistently outperforms ego.

The conversation also explores how success becomes more meaningful when it’s leveraged for others—through mentoring, generosity, and investing in causes beyond yourself. Chris offers a compelling picture of leadership that puts people at the center, proving that you don’t have to sacrifice family or character to build something impactful. This episode is an invitation to redefine success, lead with humility, and build a life that lasts beyond personal gain.

On this episode of Flex With Purpose, Schalee sits down with Dr. Kyle Thompson, a rehab specialist and chiropractor whose blend of humility, discipline, mentorship, and relentless learning shapes every life he touches. Kyle shares some of his most meaningful wins—not the kind measured in accolades, but in human transformation: patients walking again, hiking mountains, playing with their children without pain, and reclaiming the ability to live fully. His stories reveal a man who sees healing as a partnership, not a performance, and who believes humility is the only pathway to real expertise.

Through their conversation, Kyle opens up about his daily rhythms of practice, entrepreneurship, continuing education, and community involvement. He describes the “dance” of his life—balancing business demands with clinical mastery, investing deeply in his patients while also mentoring students at Parker University, and constantly seeking wisdom from those ahead of him. His approach is simple but profound: confidence isn’t pretending you know everything; it’s being willing to learn, adapt, and change when new information comes.

Kyle also shares how mentorship, grief, failure, and real human stories shaped his understanding of humility. From walking alongside a terminally ill patient whose final lesson changed the trajectory of his life, to navigating the early years of private practice, to resisting the ego trap that comes with five degrees at age 32—Kyle demonstrates how honesty, self-awareness, and action create impact far greater than knowledge alone.

This episode is a powerful invitation to anyone feeling anxious, stuck, or overwhelmed by growth: take the next step. As Kyle reminds us, action is the antidote to anxiety. Whether you're leading, healing, learning, or starting something new, this conversation will challenge you to show up with courage, humility, teachability, and purpose.

00:00 Introduction to Flex With Purpose

01:31 The Role of Humility in Accomplishments

04:48 Personal Success Stories and Impact

06:24 A Day in the Life of Dr. Kyle Thompson

12:15 The Importance of Humility in Practice

14:18 Confidence and Humility: A Balancing Act

16:53 Mentoring the Next Generation

23:35 The Ripple Effect of Teaching

On this episode of Flex With Purpose, Schalee sits down with dog-trainer-turned-community-builder Art Ortiz, whose life story is a raw and profound picture of resilience, humility, and purpose. Art opens up about the long recovery from a torn tendon in his pinky—a small injury with a massive impact on both his jiu-jitsu practice and his work with dogs. He shares how adapting to train with “three limbs instead of four” made him more resourceful, more patient, and surprisingly, even better than before. His story reframes injury not as an ending, but as an unexpected teacher.

As the conversation unfolds, Art reveals the deeper journey behind the man—navigating career loss, divorce, loneliness, and financial uncertainty. He shares the unlikely beginnings of DogFit Dallas, born from rock-bottom moments, chance encounters, and ultimately God’s providence. From walking ten dogs through downtown elevators to becoming a trusted relationship-builder between families and their pets, Art’s story shows how struggle can become a calling, and how a single decision can change the entire arc of a life.

Art also talks about his renewed faith journey—how God pursued him through unexpected people, chance conversations, worship music, and a season of personal crisis. He describes learning to slow down, to connect deeply with others, and to anchor his days in early-morning prayer and Scripture. Whether wrestling on a jiu-jitsu mat, supporting families impacted by tragedy, or helping clients rebuild trust with their dogs, Art shows how humility, service, and spiritual grounding can transform both a business and a life.

This episode is for anyone in a season of struggle, transition, or uncertainty. Art reminds us that nothing—neither the highs nor the valleys—lasts forever, and that even in our hardest moments, God is at work laying the stepping stones ahead of us. His story is an encouragement to stay the course, ask for help, keep growing, and trust that better days are coming.

00:00 Introduction to Flex With Purpose

02:18 Overcoming Personal Challenges

07:02 Navigating Life Changes

10:32 The Importance of Connection

14:27 Daily Routines and Priorities

19:11 The Journey to Becoming a Dog Trainer

23:18 From Dog Walking to Recognition

25:28 Life Changes and Personal Growth

26:43 Overcoming Difficult Moments

28:23 Seeking Help and Finding Community

35:03 Faith and Personal Transformation

38:02 Encouragement for Struggling Listeners