Why do you do what you do? There's a question driving your life and you might not even know it.

This message unpacks the Seven Primal Questions model and the core need underneath your behaviors, choices, and relationships. Most of that wiring was imprinted in childhood, and when that question got a no, maybe, or unclear, it started running your life from under the surface.

Whether you're in a season of feeling stuck, triggered, or misunderstood in your marriage, parenting, friendships, or faith, watch this message and start getting honest about what's really driving you.

In this message you'll discover:

— How to identify the core primal need running underneath your behaviors and choices

— Why unmet needs from childhood still shape your adult relationships today

— What the scramble is and why it keeps you from a flourishing life

— How God wants to meet your deepest need and answer it with a yes

Key Scriptures: Psalm 18:2, Lamentations 3, 2 Corinthians 1

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Some things you only have to do once to wreck your marriage.

This message names them out loud, and hands you the guardrails so you never do that.

In a culture that keeps redrawing the lines on sex, marriage, and conflict, this message goes back to what God actually said, that sexual intimacy belongs inside covenant, that temptation is universal but never an excuse, and that the words you use in a fight can wound deeper than you realize. The question underneath all of it: what do you need to stop doing today to protect the marriage and the people God gave you?

Whether your marriage feels strong right now, feels like it's hanging by a thread, or you're single and want to get this right before you ever say "I do", this one is for you.

In this message you'll discover:

— Why sexual intimacy belongs inside covenant marriage, and why that boundary protects you rather than restricts you

— How to run from temptation instead of negotiating with it, and why God always provides a way of escape

— Why Jesus goes after the heart and not just the act, and what that means for lust and pornography

— The guardrails that keep you out of the room where affairs actually start, and the "never do that" rules that keep a conflict from becoming a wound, including the forgiveness that cancels a debt they could never pay

Key Scriptures: 1 Corinthians 6:18, 1 Corinthians 10:13, Hebrews 13:4, Matthew 5:27-28, 1 Corinthians 13

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Most marriages don't explode overnight. They drift.

This is Part 2 of More Than A Game. We dig into what it really takes to build a marriage that goes the distance with a clear vision, full intent, and a practical strategy for becoming one. It's about covenant over contract and choosing oneness on purpose.

Whether you're feeling distant, stuck in the same fight, or just coasting while career and kids get your best, this one is for you. Watch now and take an honest look at where you are and where you could go together.

In this message you'll discover:

— Why every marriage on mission needs vision for where you're headed, intent to stay all in, and strategy for what to start and stop

— What true oneness really means and why intimacy is far bigger than just sex

— How husbands are called to love with sacrifice that fuels joy and purpose

— How wives bring life through respect, belief, and words that build strength

Key Scriptures: Matthew 19:4-6, Genesis 2, Genesis 4, Ephesians 5:25-33, 1 Timothy

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Bringing the awesome life of Christ to people in a lost and broken world. This is the mission of Flatirons Church, led by Jim Burgen and based in Lafayette, CO, with multiple locations in Colorado and online.

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