What happens when we never grow out of the high chair?

This week, Pastor Jim pulls no punches as he digs into how we accidentally raise weak men when we bubble-wrap our boys, give in to tantrums, and never teach first-time obedience. Using raw stories and biblical truth, Jim shows why parents must prepare their kids for a future where mom and dad won’t always be there. This message isn’t just for parents—it’s for every man wondering why life feels out of control.

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Faith isn’t built in comfort—it’s forged through trials. Jim shows how Jesus calls men to leave childish ways behind, face pain, and grow into strong, loving leaders who can stand when life gets hard.

From childhood to legacy, each one shapes who you are and who you’re becoming. Skip one, and it will come back to haunt your marriage, parenting, and purpose.What if the man your son becomes, or the man your daughter dates, depends on what you do next?From emotional toddler to wise mentor, each chair shapes your soul, mind, strength, and heart. Jim reminds us that spiritual maturity isn’t accidental—it’s intentional. Fathers, husbands, leaders: it’s time to stop making excuses and start owning your role. Growth requires leaving behind childish thinking and choosing a life built on love, discipline, and strength. It’s not about guilt. It’s about grace, conviction, and stepping into the life Jesus died to make possible—for you, your family, and everyone counting on you.

Three Chairs, spiritual compromise, Christian parenting, legacy, lukewarm faith, men's ministry, discipleship, generational impact, what chair are you really sitting in, and who's watching you?What if your quiet compromises today are shaping your kids' faith tomorrow?This message hits hard because it matters. Jesse walks us through the story of David, Solomon, and Rehoboam, three generations, three chairs, and one undeniable truth: the posture of your faith today becomes your child’s foundation tomorrow. Whether you’re committed, coasting, or checked out, this message holds a mirror to your spiritual life and calls you to something deeper, realer, better.David was committed. Solomon compromised. Rehoboam was complacent. That decline didn’t happen overnight. It started with one generation easing off the gas. Jesse unpacks how “The Three Chairs” explains not just their story, but ours. It’s not about perfection—it’s about the direction you’re leading your life and legacy. And the good news? You don’t have to stay where you are. You get to choose.