Like religion and politics, grief is often treated as a taboo topic in everyday conversation. We stay quiet to spare those who are hurting, but what if our silence actually makes the pain worse?

In this episode, we sit down with special guest Ruby Kraner-Tucci to explore what happens when we break the silence around loss, how to navigate the awkwardness of grief, and why talking about death is essential to finding meaning.

Read Ruby’s writing:

https://www.heraldsun.com.au/health/mental-health/my-dad-died-suddenly-but-the-silence-that-followed-felt-like-losing-him-again/news-story/f26ec17fa633e99aa8b7d17497f64663

"My dad died suddenly, but the silence that followed felt like losing him again"

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For emotional support, contact Griefline, which provides free and confidential counselling, resources and information to people experiencing grief and loss across Australia. Call 1300 845 745

This episode explores several questions about faith and meaning.

Do people who believe in a higher power and prayer have more meaning in their lives?

Can someone fully experience the richness of Jewish ritual and festival observance without belief in God and Halacha?

Is it appropriate to adapt sacred texts, such as rewriting the Shema, to better reflect contemporary values?

Who is ultimately responsible for the good and bad in our world?

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The episode features the beautiful words of Avinu Malkeni sung by The Shvesters

What is the difference between Jewish education that simply passes along information and learning that truly stays with you for a lifetime?

In this episode, we address a critical question facing our community: Should we focus our resources on fighting antisemitism, or invest them in strengthening Jewish literacy and engagement?

We wrap up with a traditional, chavruta-style Talmud study, examining how Ben Zoma’s teachings in Pirkei Avot (4:1) offered a new framework for Jewish continuity after the fall of the Second Temple.

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Listeners are welcome to enjoy Ittay’s ‘Finding Our Why - Shabbat playlist at:

https://open.spotify.com/playlist/5dIphpo9dqi1Ed1HdGofGV?si=gaDCu-3MRdGOO-O19bngmQ

In Episode 2 of Finding Our Why, we tackle the tension between fear and love, obligation and inspiration, asking what truly sustains Jewish identity today - "Oy vs. Joy."

Along the way, we reflect on parenting, rituals, and the challenge of creating a meaningful Jewish life that people are drawn to - not because they have to, but because they genuinely want to.

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findingourwhy@thejewishindependent.com.au

In the debut episode of 'Finding Our Why’, co-hosts Courtney Winter-Peters and Ittay Flescher introduce a new podcast from The Jewish Independent that shifts the conversation from communal survival and safety to the enduring joy and meaning of Jewish life.

Broadcasting from the Gold Coast and Jerusalem, the co-hosts open up about their personal journeys; how growing up in the heart of the Melbourne Jewish community shaped their early understanding of Judaism, and how living on opposite sides of the world has challenged them to consciously choose what being Jewish means to them today.

The episode sets the stage for a series of honest conversations full of questions about beliefs, traditions, and values that continue to shape Jewish identity in a changing world.

Feedback on this episode is welcome at findingourwhy@thejewishindependent.com.au

At a time when being Jewish often involves a fight, Finding our Why with Ittay Flesher and Courtney Winter-Peters explores what drives us to be Jewish, asking not what we are fighting against but what we are advocating for.

Join them to discover the drivers that makes us dig in and embrace the joy of being Jewish.

Listener feedback is welcome at:

findingourwhy@thejewishindependent.com.au