Perfectionism Is Keeping You Stuck

If you keep waiting until you feel completely ready, have the perfect plan, or know exactly how things will turn out, you may never begin.

In this episode of Family in Focus, I’m talking about how perfectionism can quietly turn into procrastination, especially when you’re trying to make meaningful changes for yourself or your family.

We’ll explore why you don’t need to have everything figured out before you take the first step, how being honest about your own imperfections can strengthen your relationship with your child, and why real change begins by showing up as you are.

In this episode:

• How perfectionism can keep you from getting started

• Why procrastination is sometimes a form of self-protection

• What happens when you wait for the perfect time or perfect plan

• Why your child doesn’t need you to have everything figured out

• How being real can create deeper connection with your family

• Why imperfect action is still meaningful progress

Chapters:

00:00 Embracing Imperfection: The Journey Begins

00:26 Introduction to Family in Focus

02:37 How Perfectionism Leads to Procrastination

05:41 The Power of Being Real in Parenting

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About Dr. Wendy Schofer

Dr. Wendy Schofer is a board-certified pediatrician with more than 20 years of experience helping families build healthier relationships with food, body image, and emotional well-being. Through Family in Focus, she shares evidence-based, compassionate parenting strategies that help families thrive.

While Dr. Wendy Schofer is a physician, this podcast is for educational purposes only and is not medical advice.

This episode explores parenting perfectionism, procrastination, fear of failure, authentic parenting, imperfect action, family connection, and how parents can begin making meaningful changes before they feel completely ready.

If you’ve been told to “let your child listen to their body,” you may be wondering what that actually looks like when they refuse dinner but happily ask for snacks five minutes later.

In this episode of Family in Focus, I’m breaking down five things parents need to know about intuitive eating and kids, including why an approach designed for adults may not translate directly to a child who is still learning to recognize hunger, fullness, and satisfaction.

We’ll talk about the difference between structure and control, why predictable meal and snack rhythms can help children understand their body’s signals, and how to support your child without becoming a short-order cook.

In this episode:

• Why intuitive eating for adults and children isn’t necessarily the same thing

• How children learn to recognize hunger, fullness, and other body signals

• Why predictable meal and snack rhythms can support body awareness

• How the short-order cook cycle can unintentionally reinforce picky eating

• Why structure around food doesn’t have to mean control

• A simple experiment to try with your family this week

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Dr. Wendy Schofer is a board-certified pediatrician with more than 20 years of experience helping families build healthier relationships with food, body image, and emotional well-being. Through Family in Focus, she shares evidence-based, compassionate parenting strategies that help families thrive.

While Dr. Wendy Schofer is a physician, this podcast is for educational purposes only and is not medical advice.

This episode explores intuitive eating for kids, responsive feeding, picky eating, hunger and fullness cues, family meal routines, and how parents can provide healthy structure around food without using restriction, pressure, or control.

What happens when comments about a child’s body stay with them long after childhood? And how can you protect your child from carrying the same shame, fear, and judgment many of us grew up with?

In this special episode of Family in Focus, I’m joined by Lisa Fipps, award-winning author of the middle-grade novel Starfish. Lisa shares how her experiences with weight-based bullying inspired the book and why its message continues to resonate with children and adults.

We talk about weight stigma, body shame, bullying, and the words children can carry for a lifetime. Most importantly, Lisa challenges us to look inward before reacting to concerns about a child’s weight or body.

In this episode:

• How Lisa’s experiences with weight-based bullying inspired Starfish

• Why comments about a child’s body can stay with them for decades

• How weight stigma can show up at home, school, and in healthcare

• Why struggles with food and eating disorders can be hidden in plain sight

• How your own experiences with weight and bullying can shape your parenting

• The question to ask yourself before trying to change your child’s weight or eating habits

Watch the full video episode on YouTube.

New episodes every Wednesday.

Want more support for raising children with confidence instead of fear or shame?

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Learn more about working with me:

https://www.wendyschofermd.com

Schedule a consultation:

https://wendyschofermdscheduling.as.me/consult

Follow along:

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Website: https://authorlisafipps.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/authorlisafipps/

Dr. Wendy Schofer is a board-certified pediatrician with more than 20 years of experience helping families build healthier relationships with food, body image, and emotional well-being. Through Family in Focus, she shares evidence-based, compassionate parenting strategies that help families thrive.

While Dr. Wendy Schofer is a physician, this podcast is for educational purposes only and is not medical advice.