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Who told you who you should be? In today’s honest and eye-opening episode, we talk about the invisible scripts we’ve all inherited, from family, culture, and past environments, and how they quietly shape the way we live. We share powerful stories, including client breakthroughs and our own experiences, to help you spot the inner critic that isn’t really yours. If you’ve ever felt stuck trying to meet expectations that don’t feel true to you, this conversation will give you clarity, courage, and the tools to start rewriting the rules.

Here are the related episodes, each one builds on today’s conversation:
#407 | The Fear of Finally Using Your Voice - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/407-the-fear-of-finally-using-your-voice/id1511831621?i=1000712057830
#392 | How To Embody A High Value Person - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/392-how-to-embody-a-high-value-person/id1511831621?i=1000703843657

Evolve Together Experiences:
🤝Out of the Mud (OOTM) - “The Right Way to Have Hard Conversations” - https://us02web.zoom.us/meeting/register/IykObX8eR7ixJaQ-qqZogw#/registration
📽️ Evolve Movie Club - https://forms.gle/bBZUbFEeD2ijypCT7

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Show notes:
(3:32) The inner critic that governs your life
(6:54) Are you living by someone else’s standards?
(9:28) What if your beliefs aren’t yours?
(12:03) Here's what Matthew has to say about the Evolve Ventures community and how it has helped in his journey.
(15:21) When your wins aren’t celebrated
(18:25) Approval will never be enough
(20:16) Choosing fulfillment over fitting in
(24:27) Outro

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In this episode of Evolve Ventures, we explore how high standards can quietly stall your progress. Through real moments and mindset shifts, we show you when to reach for excellence and when “good enough” is the wiser way. You’ll learn to sort what truly matters, escape the grip of procrastination, and harness tools like the 80% rule and Parkinson’s Law to work with, not against, time. Tune in and trade burnout for steady, soul-aligned progress.

Here are the related episodes, each one builds on today’s conversation:
#360 | The REAL Reason Why We Self-Sabotage - https://apple.co/43lcRUO
#396 | The Best Habit for Dealing With Stress - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/396-the-best-habit-for-dealing-with-stress/id1511831621?i=1000705663442

Evolve Together Experiences:
🤝Out of the Mud (OOTM) - “The Right Way to Have Hard Conversations” - https://us02web.zoom.us/meeting/register/IykObX8eR7ixJaQ-qqZogw#/registration
📽️ Evolve Movie Club - https://forms.gle/bBZUbFEeD2ijypCT7

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Connect with Emilia, Bianca & the EVOLVE VENTURES Community:

Website: http://www.evolveventurestech.com
Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/evolveventures/
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/EvolveVenturesTech (Public Page)
Evolve Ventures Society (Private Facebook Group) - https://www.facebook.com/groups/457130589193794
Emilia’s IG - https://www.instagram.com/evolvewithemilia/
Emilia’s TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@evolvewithemilia
Bianca’s IG - https://www.instagram.com/evolvewithbianca/
Bianca’s Tiktok - https://www.tiktok.com/@evolvewithbianca?_t=8gq3wqu4fAx&_r=1

Connect with Emilia & Bianca from Evolve Ventures for FREE:
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Show notes:
(3:07) What’s your high standard trap?
(5:15) Risk tolerance and optimal stopping
(9:50) When perfection fuels procrastination
(14:17) Ranking your real priorities
(16:41) Why can’t everything be a 10
(19:59) Messy action and momentum
(21:48) Parkinson’s Law and time constraints
(26:17) Outro

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Sacred rage, power reclaimed. In today’s powerful episode, we’re having a real conversation about what anger truly is and why it deserves a seat at the table. We share a powerful client story, lessons from our healing journeys, and a fresh perspective from CBT that helps reframe anger as a sacred signal, not a personal flaw. Together, we explore how unprocessed rage can live in the body, how it connects to boundaries, and how to move through it with compassion instead of shame. Whether you’ve blacked out from rage, bottled it up, or feared it would make you “bad,” this episode will help you see anger as the teacher it truly is.

Here are the related episodes, each one builds on today’s conversation:
#393 | How Trauma Gets Stored in the Body - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/393-how-trauma-gets-stored-in-the-body/id1511831621?i=1000704275227
#406 | How & When to Tell People to F**k Off - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/406-how-when-to-tell-people-to-f-k-off/id1511831621?i=1000711339551

Evolve Together Experiences:
🤝Out of the Mud (OOTM) - “The Right Way to Have Hard Conversations” - https://us02web.zoom.us/meeting/register/IykObX8eR7ixJaQ-qqZogw#/registration
📽️ Evolve Movie Club - https://forms.gle/bBZUbFEeD2ijypCT7

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Connect with Emilia, Bianca & the EVOLVE VENTURES Community:

Website: http://www.evolveventurestech.com
Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/evolveventures/
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/EvolveVenturesTech (Public Page)
Evolve Ventures Society (Private Facebook Group) - https://www.facebook.com/groups/457130589193794
Emilia’s IG - https://www.instagram.com/evolvewithemilia/
Emilia’s TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@evolvewithemilia
Bianca’s IG - https://www.instagram.com/evolvewithbianca/
Bianca’s Tiktok - https://www.tiktok.com/@evolvewithbianca?_t=8gq3wqu4fAx&_r=1

Connect with Emilia & Bianca from Evolve Ventures for FREE:
https://calendly.com/emiliasmith/free-evp-communityconnect?month=2025-07

Show notes:
(2:19) Unprocessed emotions get stored
(5:02) Creating safe space for rage
(11:33) Sacred rage as a protector
(13:24) What CBT says about anger
(17:53) Amanda highlights the impact of group coaching with Evolve Ventures, sharing how it has significantly contributed to her personal growth.
(21:18) Emotions as storytellers
(23:46) Curiosity, compassion, and identity
(30:02) Diagnosis or not, we all feel
(35:28) Outro

***Leave them a 5-star review if you felt their energy, became inspired, or felt as though the value was added to your life in your EVOLUTION.

(Stay tuned for this coming Monday’s episode!)